Svet74 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 So after 3 months of NC my ex called me. We met up and talked last week. So a couple days ago he offered to fix my car so i let him. We talked some more and he playfully asked me when im taking him out on a date? And at one point asked me if i wanna go on a date with him. I couldnt tell if he was serious or just joking. Then he tells me he has a good looking friend that he wants to introduce me too. Im not sure if he just said that to get a reaction out of me. Maybe cuz he didnt set me up with his friend yet. But when he asked I said sure. He is gonna leave for work in another week for 3 months and wont even be here. Should i just wait and see what happens before he leaves? Im very confused and not sure what he wants?
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Do you trust his intentions? How hurt will you be if he uses you? Is the risk even worth it at this point?
Author Svet74 Posted June 18, 2012 Author Posted June 18, 2012 Yes I would be very hurt thats why im trying my best to keep my distance. When i asked him why he is even helping me out with the car? He said cuz he just wants to be nice and he knows i live alone with my mom and doesnt want us to get ripped off by other people. Told me if I think that he is taking advantage of me that he is not. But said if i dont want his help that he would not. The only reason that i think his intentions might be real is because of what he told his uncle and his interest toward me. I dont think he would tell him if he was lying. Nor does he know that i know what he said.
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