ViresSanctity Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 You know us guys. Sometimes we just don't get it. I'm crushing on this girl who I study at trade school with. She's a nice girl. Really different from the bad girls I've gone for in the past. Well, I don't know what's going on. But she's been giving me these weak one armed hugs whenever I hug her with both arms. I've never been given one armed hugs by females before, even by the most casually acquaintances of females. So I'm a bit confused. My friend's man-hating ex-girlfriend who hates me gives firmer hugs than her. I've seen her hug her friend with both arms before so I don't think she's not a hugging type. So is she trying to send a hard signal that she doesn't like me hugging her? I like eating her oatmeal cookings a lot, so it would be disastrous if she doesn't like my hugs =/. But please give me the truth anyway. I don't want her feeling pressured when she's around me.
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Have you thought about asking her out? You'll get your answer and either a date or an end to your wondering.
musemaj11 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Yeah she is not attracted to you in that way. Women are the most touchy feely people. So if they dont feel like touching you, then that means they really dont feel very comfortable being too close to you.
Author ViresSanctity Posted June 24, 2012 Author Posted June 24, 2012 Have you thought about asking her out? You'll get your answer and either a date or an end to your wondering. Good answer. I did that today. Feeling pretty good about the coming straight out and removing all doubt part, but I got rejected and that doesn't feel so great right now.
Philosoraptor Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Good answer. I did that today. Feeling pretty good about the coming straight out and removing all doubt part, but I got rejected and that doesn't feel so great right now. Eh well that happens to the best of us. Look on the bright side though, you had enough courage to put yourself out there and that is to be commended.
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