ViresSanctity Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 (edited) You know us guys. Sometimes we just don't get it. I'm crushing on this girl who I study at trade school with. She's a nice girl. Really different from the bad girls I've gone for in the past. Well, I don't know what's going on. But she's been giving me these weak one armed hugs whenever I hug her with both arms. I've never been given one armed hugs by females before, even by the most casually acquaintances of females. So I'm a bit confused. My friend's man-hating ex-girlfriend who hates me gives firmer hugs than her. I've seen her hug her friend with both arms before so I don't think she's not a hugging type. So is she trying to send a hard signal that she doesn't like me hugging her? I like eating her oatmeal cookings a lot, so it would be disastrous if she doesn't like my hugs =/. But please give me the truth anyway. I don't want her feeling pressured when she's around me. Edited June 18, 2012 by ViresSanctity
Confusedcompletely Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 How well do you know her? She might be shy but at the same time she might be funny about her personal space. I know that personally, even though I'm a cuddly person, I often feel quite awkward hugging people I don't know very well...especially when it comes to males.
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 How about stop hugging her and see if she hugs you first? One handed hugs...mmmm, not good. She isn't into you that way.
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