Hereiam007 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Last weekend, I had an amazing weekend. I dated a friend. The thing is she went back to her boyfriend.and she told me that I will always have a place in her heart. We haven't spoke since Monday. I guess I just need to know how do I get with her even if she as a boyfriend. she told me everything wrong about him. I don't think they will make it. I have no clue how to proceed. He controls her, and she doesn't like that. Thanks in advance.
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 You don't get her. Even if she leaves him she will be in no condition to date nor can you trust that she won't just go running back to him. What you do is try to find someone who is actually available both emotionally and by being single. 1
musemaj11 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 The handsome bad boys get all the women. Women dont want chumps. 1
Author Hereiam007 Posted June 18, 2012 Author Posted June 18, 2012 I think I will move on with life. No need for me to wait for her. It seems so sad why woman want something different in the boyfriend but they just keep going Back To the trash, like the dog returning to eat what it vomit. Do all women if not all then most women have low self esteem to put up with being last behind mans toys (sports, girls, car))?
musemaj11 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Handsome confident bad boys are simply attractive to women the same way hot bitchy girls are attractive to men.
Author Hereiam007 Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 well my friend called me we spent the last two nights just talking about the future. I think she likes me, but she cancelled on me to "spend time" alone. She is apart from her boyfriend right now from this morning. It seems that I have been put in limbo by her. I know she has been with him for 10 months. And somehow I don't feel like i have the upper hand or when I am with her, we reveal our feelings to each other, but then she realize she loves her ex/current boyfriend, then cancels on me. I say she has the upper hand because it seems like i am running to her side when she calls me. I have to live my life and find someone else. I guess I need advice on how to reject her and at the same time not to be rushing to her side. I know she needs help and that is the hard part. I like to help her. I just have mixed emotions.
amantis Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Why do you want to help her if she loves her ex ? do you need more reasons to stop talking to her ? You like her , she doesnt like you , move on and go no contact
Author Hereiam007 Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 I feel like helping her because she had a rough childhood, molested, taken to a foste home, a run away teenager. I am on no contact with her until she calls me. I will give it 5 days til she calls me. When she calls me she will need a friend to talk to and that is me. As of right now, I am her best guy friend who has shown her love and in no way do I want to risk our friEndship. Thanks for any advice on listening. I think she may call me Tuesday.
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