RedIvy Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 I met this really amazing guy through a friend of mine. We hit it off quite nicely and I felt all the normal giddy, gushy, stuff I was supposed to. 4 months later, things have been different. He's still crazy about me, wants me more than anything, and will do just about anything to make me happy...did I mention he was amazing??. Okay, so what's the problem? Well, I find myself going back and forth on wanting to be with him. Sometimes its like I'm so happy I finally found this amazing man, and then days later, I'm feeling so unsure..not knowing if I want to be with him. Here's the weird part...he's what a boyfriend should be. He's the type of guy I'd like to marry. So why do I periodically feel insecure about the relationship? I hate this. I want to feel crazy about him like I did when we first met!! I feel like if I let him go, I'll regret it. But then, it's still a fresh relationship, shouldn't I be head over heels for him?! Please help! I'm so confused. Thanks guys!
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 You do sound rather confused. The thing is "what a boyfriend should be" is based on what the outside world tells you. Is he what you want though?
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