redrose123 Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 I spoke with my exes mother today. She said he isn't dating anyone else, he still has all of our pictures up in his room and when she mentioned me the other day he started bawling crying. She said she knows he cares about me and she thinks he is just scared, confused, and is too immature to see what is really important in life. She is afraid he will wake up one day and realize what a mistake he made and it will be too late. He and I have texted back and forth a couple of times but we never talk about the break up or about us. My question is what does it mean that he still has our pictures hanging up and that he cried when she mentioned me? Should I try to contact him to see how hes feeling or wait for him to make the first move? I'm just so confused.
Svet74 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 dont contact him. this is his problem. and sometimes this can take a while. Took my ex a yr to realize what he lost. Just keep moving forward
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Even dumpers hurt after the relationship ends. I wouldn't read too far into this as everyone needs to grieve even if the relationship isn't exactly what they wanted. If he wants to try again he will make it known. Anything else is just games they are playing or we are playing with ourselves.
flitzanu Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 what raptor said. also why are you talking to his mom?
geegirl Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Dumpers sometimes suffer from dumpers remorse. Best thing for you to do is to remove yourself from his life and let him deal with his emotions without you as a crutch. Stop talking to his mother.
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