Should i just wait another few more years? Or just start my new life.?

[Jane West]

Hey, im new. Nice to meet you. This should be my very first post. Wish it goes well.

Here goes my story, Me and my crush have be contacting for almost 1 year. Well.. things doesn't goes what i expected . It has been almost one year yet my crush still does have any feeling towards me. Everytime i started to try to confess, she would definitely know and started to change topic. She did also told me that we only could be friend.

So.. day after day. It is time to us to separate into 2 different state . She told me to find another girls. But i refused to.. Im just hoping to wait for her until we end our graduate . It seems look to be stupid. But im really in love with her. What i wanted to ask is, Is there a chance to to make a girl have feelings toward us ( while her currently answer is no ).

[TaraMaiden]

Her answer is currently 'no' but then, it always has been, and she has done nothing to change that.

you need to move on.

you've wasted 2 years, don't waste any more time on something which looks at best, unlikely, and at worst, a complete and total fantasy on your part, only.

Edited June 17, 2012 by TaraMaiden

[Stanza]

Yeah I think you should move on, and make sure she knows it and then see. I have a friend who did that. Pined after this girl for 2 years, eventually he left the country and only at that point she really wanted him back!! She moved to his new country and they just had a baby together. Was like as soon as she couldn't have him...

 

I'm not usually the one to say break contact, but in this case, it might be your best bet to break frequent contact - be busy, get some pictures up on online looking like you're a busy busy, happy person.