erincarson Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 my first confused thought. the first time me and my new lover had sexual intercourse i fell asleep before the fun was over yet he waited there anyways till he had to leave for work gently woke me reminded me he had work kissed my head left and then two days later we were enjoying each others company again. normally most men dont stick around if a woman falls asleep early. what are reasons he would? second, since we met he usually always is the first to text as i was raised not to really speak unless spoken to, im quite unless i am upset then youll hear it. but lately he seems to only rant on and on if i start the conversation. i was told he could be bored or he could be trying to see if i am still intrested. which i am i say things like i missed hearing from you yesterday and then somedays he responds "me too or just "lol"..ugh... ( i am recently divorced and havnt dated in over 5 years). third is there any small but yet noticeable moves i can make to help take things to the next level of our relationship. or anything he does that would show me better how he feels about taking things to the next level? thanks erin.
Philosoraptor Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 How interested are you in this guy? If you're interested you should take the lead here. I don't see anything that makes it seem like he isn't interested, but too many games are being played. Seems like you both are pretty confused.
Author erincarson Posted June 17, 2012 Author Posted June 17, 2012 Yeah we both are pretty confused. yes I really like him. My question is how can I take the lead? I'm not big on starting conversations at all. He is aware of this. We will be in each others company again soon and Im not sure at all what I can do.
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Yeah we both are pretty confused. yes I really like him. My question is how can I take the lead? I'm not big on starting conversations at all. He is aware of this. We will be in each others company again soon and Im not sure at all what I can do. Well push a bit and start a conversation. Speak before you're spoken to. Just be a straight shooter and let him know you'd be interested in making this more than a passing fling.
Author erincarson Posted June 18, 2012 Author Posted June 18, 2012 So I did I spoke before spoken to. We hubgout last night, we were doing our thing he said I was a passive person I know what I want I just won't ever say it. He leaned over and wispered to me sometimes you just have to go for it. I wasnt sure what he meant so I didn't go for it. He sends the most mixed signals I have ever encountered. Right after he leaned back and said im something as in I never know what I want. On the drive home tmhe talked about having lunch with his daughters playmates mom didn't say much about it other than the lady got lost trying to get to the place which was only 3 blocks our original time to hangout was Tuesday I'm not sure to ask him if were still going to hangout then or not. I really like him he's the first gentleman ive cone across in along time.
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