lifeasiknowit Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 Am I wrong to be bothered by the fact that my boyfriend posted a photo of a girl in a bikini on his facebook? It's taken from behind, so this girl clearly didn't know he was taking her photo. She's just some random hot girl in a bikini he felt compelled to take a photo of while on vacation solo.
Philosoraptor Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 You're allowed to be bothered by whatever bothers you. This would likely bother many others as well. It's one thing to look and another to take a keepsake.
veggirl Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 Eww that is so disrespectful and embarrassing. it might be an insta-dump for me. Why the eff is he a) taking pictures of girls in bikinis when they don't know about it? That's so pervy and disgusting. and b) then posting them on FB???? Douchebag, gross, gross. Embarrassing. 2
Author lifeasiknowit Posted June 17, 2012 Author Posted June 17, 2012 should I let him know I think it's not cool and that it bothers me or should I just let it go? I think he'll just take it the wrong way (that I'm being negative and criticizing him). It's not like he's done this before, and it might not mean anything.
Shaun-Dro Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 should I let him know I think it's not cool and that it bothers me or should I just let it go? I think he'll just take it the wrong way (that I'm being negative and criticizing him). It's not like he's done this before, and it might not mean anything. He's just being a guy. I got a girlfriend and still check out other girl's butts and boobs all the time. Let it go and stop being so sensitive.
RiverRunning Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 So...he's taking photos of women without their knowledge, then posting it on Facebook? That's something I expect of a teenager...not a grown man. And frankly, it's very creepy. This is more than "he checked out another woman" - and let's be honest here, they all do - but to me it speaks boundaries about a person's character. Snapping a picture of a woman you know in a bikini? All right. A woman's backside you don't know, probably without her knowledge, on Facebook, that your girlfriend can see? That's simply too many red flags to ignore, OP, and you are not being "too sensitive." Dump the chump. 1
irin Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 take a picture of some hot guy is some tight shorts, and post on FB. well see who is the sensitive one.
tigressA Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 take a picture of some hot guy is some tight shorts, and post on FB. well see who is the sensitive one. Better yet, get the guy's permission and pose with him, crouching down with a big "Oh yeah!" grin while pointing at his crotch.
veggirl Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 should I let him know I think it's not cool and that it bothers me or should I just let it go? I think he'll just take it the wrong way (that I'm being negative and criticizing him). It's not like he's done this before, and it might not mean anything. Um it means he's a creepy perv. Yes you should bring it up, tell him it's gross and disrespectful to YOU (not to mention the girl!) and he needs to delete it.
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