For the sake of my life.....give some advice on my gf's new job

[unconfirmedsuicide]

My girlfriend just got a job thats over 2hours away from where we live. And she works from 9am-7 at night, wich means she will get home at 9, earliest. I have to wakeup everymorning at 5am. And i work untill 5pm.....I honestly dont know if i can take it, im going crazy right now just thinking about her. I get to spend MAYBE 1 hour with her a day....usually not even that(We used to spend at least 5hours a day together, she would be waiting for me at my house when i got off work.............I love her so much.....but i dont know if i can do it.....id do anything for her, but the pain of missing her is unbearable.......IS it selfish to ask her to quit her job and find a diff one??? Im so lost right now i just want to die....this really sucks.

[lydiamarie]

dying isn't going to solve your problem.

 

could you move closer to where her job is and find a job? how easy would it be for her to find a comparable job where you live now? could you move so that you are between each of your jobs-that way you will each have half the commute that she has now (you'll get home at 6, she at 8)?