Mattock5656 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I went on a date with a female yesterday and it went really well. Good conversation flow and we both seemed to enough each others company. The date lasted more than a hour or so. I was wondering at the end of the date, we talked for a bit and I walked her back to the car. I gave her a hug and said we should hang out again. She said definitely and we chatted for a bit longer and then she drove off. I told her that for the most part I'm available on Thursdays and Fridays and she said she will be busy for the rest of the week and that she will text me about when we will hang out next. I usually schedule another time but she put the ball in her court haha. I texted that evening joking about traffic and she texted back saying, Thank you for driving out! blah blah.... So, you think its more of a cope out with her saying that she will "text me"? She really seemed like she enjoyed everything.... What should I do from here?
Sid6.7 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I went on a date with a female yesterday and it went really well. Good conversation flow and we both seemed to enough each others company. The date lasted more than a hour or so. I was wondering at the end of the date, we talked for a bit and I walked her back to the car. I gave her a hug and said we should hang out again. She said definitely and we chatted for a bit longer and then she drove off. I told her that for the most part I'm available on Thursdays and Fridays and she said she will be busy for the rest of the week and that she will text me about when we will hang out next. I usually schedule another time but she put the ball in her court haha. I texted that evening joking about traffic and she texted back saying, Thank you for driving out! blah blah.... So, you think its more of a cope out with her saying that she will "text me"? She really seemed like she enjoyed everything.... What should I do from here? Hey man, tell me. Are you going to let her take the wheel or are you driving this thing? You are already in her head. You do not call her back or text her until you damn well please. You do have other things to do, don't you?
Philosoraptor Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 She said she would let you know when she is free. Just accept it at face value and let life happen.
SJC2008 Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 I'll never ask for a second date on a first, I don't care if I fell in love. I'll say I had a good time and things like that. I typically don't call the next day either unless there is a hint that they are open to it. You asked her out and said I'm typically available xyz days, basically handing yourself to her on a silver platter. Now I'm NOT saying play games and wait 3 days to return a call or text or to act busy but the way you handled it I doubt you'll hear from her but I hope you do!
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