finalxbox Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 my ex and i dont know what we are to each other or you can say i don't know yet i dont want to rush like we did last time ...ok so shes was talking about the party her family was throwing tonight and how much fun she was going to have and how she could not wait .it was like she was trying to make me jealous .saying stuff like im just gonna take a nap just for time to fly by because i can't wait. i wasnt paying attention she said"i will call you back ok wendell?"i just hung up without saying anything..it was a reflex.i was i wrong? that was 7 hours ago and she hasn't call back .
Art_Critic Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 that was 7 hours ago and she hasn't call back . Well.. you rudely hung up her... It is rude to hang up on anybody...you should have acknowledged her.. I think a better thing would be to not speak with her anymore till you can handle hearing about what she has to talk about. and the other thing is that maybe she had already hung the phone up after she mentioned calling you back and didn't realize you hung the phone up.
Author finalxbox Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 no because she always waited until i answered to hang up ..plus i heard her lil girl acting a butt when i hung up ...also she never waited this late to call me back .. it would be 10 mins to and hour max..
simonsez Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 (edited) i wasn't paying attention she said"i will call you back ok wendell?"i just hung up without saying anything..it was a reflex.i was i wrong? I find it hard to believe that it was just a reflex to just hang up on her. Since when is it a reflex to just hang up on someone you care about without saying goodbye unless you are upset with them? If you can't be honest with yourself, then it is hard to help you. Your question shows that you know you were wrong in doing this. You SHOULD have called back immediately and apologized. You should have been happy for her that she was excited about the party. Doesn't matter if she was trying to make you jealous or not. When you care about someone you should want them to be happy. You should have let her know that. You should also have made plans for yourself and let her know how excited you were about what you were going to do that night. That way she could also know that you are perfectly fine by yourself when she is doing activities that she enjoys. THAT is what is attractive to women. It isn't attractive to hang up on them and sulk and then expect them to come running back to call you. Sounds to me that you WERE jealous and that you did know exactly what you were doing when you hung up on her. You wanted her to call you back and now that she hasn't you are in panic. Don't do that type of stuff anymore or it will destroy your relationship. Edited June 17, 2012 by simonsez
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