NYC-BigKat Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I'm just a failure all-around & I dont know what to do stop this cycle. I asked out a girl that was looking at me wednesday & she says I'm not her type. If I'm not her type why does she keep looking at me? Then I applied for this consulting job through my school after graduating. They give me a call & I schedule a telephone interview. I dont know why they do this but I guess its the new thing or something. Anyway during the interview with the guy on the phone he wants to know why I left my last job as a clerk. I told him things didn't work out but he wont accept it. Why not? I didn't wanna badmouth my stupid idiot boss that made me quit. And then there was the road test earlier today & I failed . I took 5 lessons & did okay I guess but got really really scared after the examiner lady failed this girl in like 10 seconds & I dont know why. Then I fail 'cause I cant park right & I hit the curb by mistake. Oops . My confidence is low right now 'cause I cant get anything done & people are probably tired of me .
Philosoraptor Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 We all have times like this. I can remember times where life seemed just as bleak. In these times it's important to remember the little things that are going right and understand that things will get better. They really can't go much further down so even that knowledge is something to grasp a hold of. But to your list: The girl was honest with you. Though she may think you're attractive by looking, or is looking to see if you're still staring... she doesn't feel like there would be much of a match. For the job you should make something up. How about "there were limited opportunities for growth so I felt a change was necessary". Parking can suck, simple as that. Try again.
amantis Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 Do you have cancer ? can you walk ? does your family loves you ? cant you ask other girl out ? cant you do another road test ? cant you apply for another job ? Look , the way i see life is , everything happen for a reason , and you have to learn from that . Now you know that you have to learn how to park , next time when you want to ask a girl out , go for it , if she say yes good for you , if she say no , go for the next one . Learn and be happy , life sometimes sucks , but most of the times we make the problems in our head .
Author NYC-BigKat Posted June 17, 2012 Author Posted June 17, 2012 Do you have cancer ? can you walk ? does your family loves you ? cant you ask other girl out ? cant you do another road test ? cant you apply for another job ? Look , the way i see life is , everything happen for a reason , and you have to learn from that . Now you know that you have to learn how to park , next time when you want to ask a girl out , go for it , if she say yes good for you , if she say no , go for the next one . Learn and be happy , life sometimes sucks , but most of the times we make the problems in our head . Getting rejected over & over is overwhelming me . I wanna drive so bad & thought I had a chance but after seeing that girl fail the test right there before me scared me so so much really it did. I guess I need more lessons 'cause my parking sucks right now. And I'm gonna think of using a excuse next time besides it just wasn't working out at the job 'cause people just cant let things be that this happen sometimes.
CopingGal Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 When I finally learn how to drive I'm gonna take many, many, many, many lessons! Believe me, so many bad things happened to me in the past several years, one after another after another. I got fired from a volunteer job. On my application I put miscommunications and personality conflicts. It's hard when you work for a dumb a$$ and then you have to explain it. Especially if you are trying to get a paying job that is in the same agency you got fired from. These past several years have been the darkest time of my entire life. Twice, twice, I met someone in person that I was introduced to through a dating establishment in which the person saw me, and just took off. And these men were both very, very, very unattractive. Still, I wanted to give them a chance to see if they were nice and they just left me in the middle of the date. Most men are usually very disappointed when they see me. I'm too tall for them, I'm too fat for them...I've heard it all. I've had guys I met cut dates short too and one of them ended up in my class and never spoke to me unless I said hello...acted as if we had never even met. The men that did want to go out with me from the dating agencies took advantage of me. I have yet to find a nice man that is attracted to me since my first bf. The men that I've met on my own without a dating agency called me "BABY" because I wanted to take time to get to know them before sleeping with them. I have yet to have a decent relationship and this past relationship was the worst ever and extremely painful. Even the nice guy, my first bf cheated on me. Believe me, you are not alone in this. I'm concentrating on the good things in my life. Screw everything else.
Pistol pete Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Don't think too much into it... I once got dumped, failed my driving test and also became unemployed all in the same week! But, 3 months later, I passed my test.. met a new girl and got a new job all in the space of a week as well Swings and roundabouts my friend.
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