hurting1982 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I'm not getting any better at getting over my ex! If anything it's getting worse. I'd kidded myself into thinking I was ok and would be happy for him, but Im really not ready. I'd updated my Facebook status at 5:30 one morning because I couldn't sleep and it had put my location as somewhere other than where I live. In the morning I had a text off my ex asking why I was out and about at 5:30 last night? I quickly replied to him saying I wasn't I was in bed, but in the back of my mind I was tempted to tell him I was with someone but I didn't. Then 2 days after that happened I saw him on Facebook with someone else in the profile picture, and I really felt like the knife had been twisted in my chest. I deactivated my account because of this cus don't want to see things like that at the moment. Once again he text asking if I was ok and had notices thar I'd vanished on facebook! How woukd he even know that unless he was checking on me! He's the one that dumped me so why is he so bothered?! I just can't get over this...it's so hard and my mates can't always be there for me. And when I'm on my own I could just sit there and cry! I constantly feel sick and ive lost so much weight with worry that I'm just not coping. Please can someone let me know what the hell is going on in my ex's head and say something to make me feel better!
Radu Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Because he wants you to be pining for him. Stop all communication with him, go full NC so you can heal. He will send messages from time to time, don't answer anything back. He dumped you and then had the goal to interrogate you where you were at 5:30 in the morning ... let that sink in real gooood.
stillafool Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 So true! The best way to burn his ass is to drop off the face of the earth. Hide from him if you have to as this is the best medicine for you as well as him. He will start to think you have met someone else and off somewhere having a ball. Good that you got off facebook. Don't reply to your ex when he contacts you.
Author hurting1982 Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 I've really being trying not to contact him but it's so hard! I've done NC before with another ex and it worked well and now were best of mates, I'm just finding it so hard this time. Also it doesn't help that he's suffering from stress and the situation of us splitting up had put his stress levels through the roof so when he texts me I feel like I have to reply to him otherwise he worries and I don't want to make him bad. Believe it or not he is actually a really nice guy and we did nothing to hurt each other while we were together, we only argued twice, and we never hurt each other. And when we broke up he did all he could to try n help me out so he's not s horrible guy which is why it's hard. Be easier If he was.
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