shammysheldon Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Okay so me and my boyfriend of two months were chatting late one night about our worries and such He told me about a girl he use to really fancy in high school and that he couldnt get her name of his mind and he was worried that when we get intimate he will say her name instead of mine Im distraught and dont know what to do, I am his first kiss, first girlfriend,first everything. Why is he still hung up about a girl he fancied almost 7 years ago? I feel so insecure right now and ended up crying myself to sleep in a most pathetic way ( I know)
manup Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Okay so me and my boyfriend of two months were chatting late one night about our worries and such He told me about a girl he use to really fancy in high school and that he couldnt get her name of his mind and he was worried that when we get intimate he will say her name instead of mine Im distraught and dont know what to do, I am his first kiss, first girlfriend,first everything. Why is he still hung up about a girl he fancied almost 7 years ago? I feel so insecure right now and ended up crying myself to sleep in a most pathetic way ( I know) You're young, take this as an opportunity to not put up with bs like that. Dump him and find someone available.
luvinthesun Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 Okay so me and my boyfriend of two months were chatting late one night about our worries and such He told me about a girl he use to really fancy in high school and that he couldnt get her name of his mind and he was worried that when we get intimate he will say her name instead of mine Im distraught and dont know what to do, I am his first kiss, first girlfriend,first everything. Why is he still hung up about a girl he fancied almost 7 years ago? I feel so insecure right now and ended up crying myself to sleep in a most pathetic way ( I know) Ew. Move on...
D-Lish Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 Learn from a young age NOT to put up with crap like this. A good guy would never confess such a thing to someone he actually respected. What an idiot! The only reason someone would mention such a thing is to make the other person feel insecure so they could gain the upper hand. Don't give in to that game.
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 He's basically emotionally unavailable... You need to talk more about him and this girl, he sounds young and foolish enough to mention it....an older guy would have known better and kept it hidden. You need that for you however, not him. You'll likely want to stay and stick this through and I'm sure he isn't going to want to let go...but for a guy to say something like that...out of foolishness or not, is unfortunately a deal breaker...regardless of whether had alterior motives when saying it or not. He just doesn't sound like a good guy and I'm sure more red flags will start popping up...read the writing on the wall, don't try and force it, you don't need to force love.
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