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Great 2nd date, but haven't heard from her


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You guys were incredibly helpful last time. Hopefully, you guys can help a brother out again.

 

So, I took this girl out last Sunday. It was a 2nd date. I had a great time with her. The date ended with a passionate kiss in front of her house.

 

I was feeling pretty good about it. I called her Wednesday night. She didn't answer, so I left a voicemail saying that I had a great time and would love to do it again, and for her to hit me back when she got my message.

 

Still haven't heard back. No call, no text. A little deflating, but thats life. Now, my gut urge is "on to the next". Should I give this another attempt (call, text, message) or just let it be?*

 

I mean, I know girls can be flaky, but it seems strange for it to go so well then dissolve like that.

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It could be a number of things... Live your life as normal. Give it another day or two.

Try to call her again, wait for her reply. But if after that, still nothing...

Hint hint... MOVE ON... :)

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It could be a number of things... Live your life as normal. Give it another day or two.

Try to call her again, wait for her reply. But if after that, still nothing...

Hint hint... MOVE ON... :)

 

Don't call her again.

 

If she contacts you, cool. Otherwise, find someone else.

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I mean, I know girls can be flaky, but it seems strange for it to go so well then dissolve like that.

This is the same girl that only came back to you after her (in all likelihood) alternative plans fell through. She does not sound too interested. If she responds, great. If not, move on.

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Yeah, pretty much what I thought. Thanks for your input, y'all. You guys kick ass. On to the next.

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Yeah, pretty much what I thought. Thanks for your input, y'all. You guys kick ass. On to the next.

 

Well then, good luck! :)

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