divaflyinghigh Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Hello Loveshackers! I'm new to the forum but I've read quite a few posts and I'm hoping you can give me some insight into the man I'm dating. We've been seeing each other for about a month now and this past Tuesday had our first sleepover (we've been intimate before, but this was the first time one of us spent the night at the other's house). We usually see each other a couple of times a week (once during the week and once on the weekend) and we text several times a day. After out last date I sensed something had changed. Usually we would both initiate texts, but it seems like I'm initiating more, although he always answers straight away. Today I finally asked if his interest in me was fading, to which he replied: "We've only been dating a few weeks but you are all kinds of cool. Just going slowly." To which I replied: "Of course I am! Just wondering what you were thinking since we've never really discussed it. Slow is good, just as long as we haven't stopped :)" I texted him back that I'd have weekends off next month, but he's got friends over so he hasn't responded (of course). He's got his kids for the next week, but on our last date he said he could get away for a few hours to see me, but now I'm second guessing everything. I know he told me he's still into me, but actions speak louder than words. I know he's had a stressful week at work which is why he claims he hasn't been texting as much, but I can't help thinking he's just not that into me anymore. I probably sent up the crazy flag when I asked if he was still into me, but I just couldn't stand not knowing where I stood. So what do you think, gentle readers?
tina783 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Go with your gut. Trust me. I was in a situation similar to this and felt he was more "distant" after two months of dating. I blamed it on him being stressed with work but deep down inside I just felt off about it. Well sure enough, he soon broke it off and stated he reconnected with an ex.
mortensorchid Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Unfortunately I think he's backing off. This happened to me two years ago, I was seeing this guy for about two months and then he suddenly backed off and broke it off. He said he was trying to get over someone else from a few months before. I said alright, he won't talk to me anymore. But about six months after that he got a new girlfriend and he seems to be living with her now, so I guess he did, in fact, get over it. Life goes on.
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