mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Ok I know guys are going to come to this thread and say they prefer brunettes or women are going to say they are brunettes and they get a lot of love...I'm not saying as a brunette you don't get anything but blonds are the ones who seem to catch men's attention first and foremost. I say this from observing guys and their reactions to women in bars, on the street etc and from talking to many guys. Some of my guy friends think a girl is automatically hot if she is blond. It seems to me like a lot of guys regard them as a prize and getting a blond girl is a status/ego boost for them. Of course if a woman is very overweight or has an ugly face, blond hair is not going to help her much. But if she has light features and can pull the blond look off, this might be it for catching men's attention!
Bristolius Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Mesmerized, you're not getting enough attention? What would be the right amount of attention for you?
nessaaa Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I rather lose an eyeball then go blonde. I have dark hair and I get all sorts of attention from all different sorts of guys. They dont care about hair colour, I think they care more about the length, and over all how you look.
Author mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Mesmerized, you're not getting enough attention? What would be the right amount of attention for you? lol, women by nature are attention whores, some more than the others. But this thread isn't about me. This thread is about an observation I've made. I'm just stunned when I see guys seeing girls as hot just because of their hair or skin color.
MrNate 2.0 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Eh, who told you this lie? If she's ugly it doesn't matter what color her hair is.
Author mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Eh, who told you this lie? If she's ugly it doesn't matter what color her hair is. I did state in my OP that hair color isn't going to help an ugly or obese woman. But for an average or pretty girl...it's a different story.
threebyfate Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Going blonde right now might not be such a bad idea for women who can pull it off since so many bottle blondes went dark because of the brunette to black hair trend for the past 8 or so years. But I won't since near-black to black suits me where there's no purpose for me to solicit any further attention. 1
dasein Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Men like blondes because many of them, being vain and superficial enough to spend lots of time and money on their hair color, are also more gullible and easier to manipulate into easy sex.
somedude81 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 BTW, this really only applies to women who could have natural blonde hair. If you're Asian, black, Indian etc, please don't. 1
Author mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Men like blondes because many of them, being vain and superficial enough to spend lots of time and money on their hair color, are also more gullible and easier to manipulate into easy sex. I don't know about that. The guy friends of mine who love blondes see them as unattainable. Like they are too good and belong to fantasy world
MrNate 2.0 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I did state in my OP that hair color isn't going to help an ugly or obese woman. But for an average or pretty girl...it's a different story. Eh, still disagree. Brunettes have more of an 'edge' factor to them. Blonde is overrated..like 1990's overrated.
verhrzn Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Actually, my theory is all men have either one of two appearance fetishes (and other fetishes as well, but they have at least one of these two): either red heads, or Asians. I have yet to meet a guy that doesn't show a marked preference for either of these two groups.
Author mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Actually, my theory is all men have either one of two appearance fetishes (and other fetishes as well, but they have at least one of these two): either red heads, or Asians. I have yet to meet a guy that doesn't show a marked preference for either of these two groups. I have I'll be honest, I've never met a guy who has an asian fetish. 1
USMCHokie Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I have I'll be honest, I've never met a guy who has an asian fetish. Actually...neither have I...
Bristolius Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Two pages in about 30 minutes. That's a lot of attention for a non-blonde.
Author mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Two pages in about 30 minutes. That's a lot of attention for a non-blonde. Virtual attention, not good.
USMCHokie Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Virtual attention, not good. Meh, take what you can get...
verhrzn Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I have I'll be honest, I've never met a guy who has an asian fetish. Might be all the nerds I hang out with. Maybe the redhead/Asian is subject to only nerdy men. When I lived in Japan, every single one of the guys in my prefecture ended up with a Japanese girlfriend/wife (as opposed to only 2 of the 30 or so foreign women in our group.) Now, that might be a biased source, since chances are the guys went TO Japan to hook up with the Asian ladies. (That is also why I will never message/date a guy who has lived abroad in an Asian country for a significant amount of time. Good chance he did so in hopes of Asian tail.)
Author mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Meh, take what you can get... Yeah blondes are out there having real sex, I'm here getting electronic attention yay lool
somedude81 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Actually, my theory is all men have either one of two appearance fetishes (and other fetishes as well, but they have at least one of these two): either red heads, or Asians. I have yet to meet a guy that doesn't show a marked preference for either of these two groups. What's the difference between a fetish and a marked preference? Either way, I have no interest in red heads, but Asian girls, especially Japanese (Americanized) are my number two ethnicity preference behind white girls.
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Eh being blond pr brunette didn't make much difference to the amount of attention I get. Bleaching my hair for years has left it in horrible shape and it's only now getting back to nice and silky - brunette it is.
USMCHokie Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 When I lived in Japan, every single one of the guys in my prefecture ended up with a Japanese girlfriend/wife (as opposed to only 2 of the 30 or so foreign women in our group.) Now, that might be a biased source, since chances are the guys went TO Japan to hook up with the Asian ladies. Were these white dudes...? More likely than not, it's not necessarily that they are super attracted to Asian women, but instead, they are simply taking advantage of the fact that they are worshipped there by said Asian women... Like shootin' fish in a barrel...
Author mesmerized Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Eh being blond pr brunette didn't make much difference to the amount of attention I get. Bleaching my hair for years has left it in horrible shape and it's only now getting back to nice and silky - brunette it is. maybe you can't pull it off and don't have the skin tone for it. I'd look horrible with blond and would never go there.
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