Yeagurl Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I was with a guy for 4 and a half years and he treated like **** one second and then treated like a queen the next. I'm not gonna lie we're both to blame for our hectic relationship. I loved him more then life itself I'm sure he loved me but he was very selfish. We broke up and this time it's for good! He completely crossed the line and put me down and all I did was ask him a question about something he had done in the past and he flipped! But I feel so depressed now. Thinking crazy like maybe I should cut all my hair off or when I know I'm just staying in the house I feel the need to still get dressed up and put on makeup. I wanna move out of my moms house because I just wanna be alone. What should I do? How can I get over this.
peas411 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 You'll be fine, I hate it when people say that, but in a ways its true. I do think that you should do something different, but only whatever you want to. When I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years I wanted to do something different. I didn't cut my hair but I did do another hairstyle after a while, and although I worked out before I got involved in running. As far as moving out of your moms house if you can afford to move out then by all means get your own place. However, if you can't afford it, then don't let your breakup make you make a stupid choice about moving out. If you want some alone time take a walk...or even get into running. Breakups are hard, but they do give you time to discover you. Hopes this helps!
Savage4 Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 From what you described you need to forget about this loser and move on. You were together for four years so you should know him pretty well by now. He freaks out over one little thing... how is he going to handle your relationship if something that is actually serious comes up? Cut all your hair off? Why? Are you going for a new style, or are you just trying to make a point? If you truly just want something new that will still look good then go for it. But by all means I encourage you to move out of your moms house and become a new woman. The way you describe this guy makes him sound like a total loser... try to forget about him, dress yourself up, put makeup on and feel sexy about yourself! You'll be over him before you know it.
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