jnuberjosh Posted June 15, 2012 Posted June 15, 2012 It's almost been a week since my gf broke up with me. Our relationship was only three months but it was very strong and we both felt a connection...we talked about so much..the only reason for the break up was she had reaso. To believe I was a member of dating sitrs, which I was simply bc I neglected to deactivated them. I did not log onto them anymore or anything.when she broke up she was very hurt and said she had out a wall up now. Ive had nc for five days but I want to send an email explaining how I feel about her and apologizing for hurting her although unintentional.what do u think ?
k100danny Posted June 15, 2012 Posted June 15, 2012 If this is the actual reason and you explained then it may be hard for her to accept or she may have some trust issues. If you really were not on dating sites and they were from previous times when you were single then i would try and see if you can work it out but i would also find this hard to believe if i saw the girl i had been seeing on a dating site.
Philosoraptor Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I think you'd be setting yourself up for more unnecessary pain. You'd be better off putting that energy into working on yourself.
Author jnuberjosh Posted June 16, 2012 Author Posted June 16, 2012 Well....after talking to a computer expert I now how proof that I was not on the site or even a member...so guess ill see if that matters any...still have not contacted her tho....simply posted on my Facebook saying I now know how my computer was hacked and why thwre was a posting...just wanted to know the truth and what happened even if it did ruin a relationship....don't know if itll help but I just feel alot better knowinghow it got there ...knowing I was and am completely honest and now ave proof of that.
Philosoraptor Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Goodness if you're going to say something you should have just been direct with her rather than blasting the world with it.
blotter Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 I dunno man after a woman gets turned off by something, even if it's not true, that's usually the end. The walls go up and they are through. Sometimes **** really does happens.
Philosoraptor Posted June 16, 2012 Posted June 16, 2012 Nc remember I'm sorry but this is far from NC. You posted to get a reaction and if she's not on your facebook someone else will pass it along.
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