DollWelch Posted June 15, 2012 Posted June 15, 2012 I have been getting to know the same man from my previous thread (who is about 4 years my junior) for the last few weeks -with about a 2 week hiatus. Recently, on a whim, I forwarded him my number thinking he and I could take it to the next level (even if platonically) since he did mention last time I spoke with him that he wants to get to know me for who I am, the real deal. Now it has only been a day, but will he ever call? I am thinking it might take him a while to call me. He did ask for my number a couple of weeks ago but I was hesitant to give it to him, mainly because I was reluctant and was in the early stages of trusting and getting to know him. Thoughts?
Philosoraptor Posted June 15, 2012 Posted June 15, 2012 All you can do right now is wait. You put the ball in his court. 1
Author DollWelch Posted June 15, 2012 Author Posted June 15, 2012 All you can do right now is wait. You put the ball in his court. You're right -but this is agonizing. I am not even sure if he really did get my number, as he rarely (not often) checks that form of communication. Well if I don't hear from him, then at least I tried. His loss. There are other fish in the sea.
truth_seeker Posted June 15, 2012 Posted June 15, 2012 You're right -but this is agonizing. I am not even sure if he really did get my number, as he rarely (not often) checks that form of communication. Well if I don't hear from him, then at least I tried. His loss. There are other fish in the sea. I hate these kind of situations because you really don't know if he got the number, and if he did, he could always lie and say he just got your message now, which could be weeks later after you sent the message. I think you will hear from him eventually. People like options. If he likes you, he will be sure to get in touch.
writergal Posted June 15, 2012 Posted June 15, 2012 They say patience is a virtue. You gave him your phone number, the ball is in his court now as to whether or not he actually does call you. Do not bug him by dropping hints to call you as that will come across very needy. If he doesn't call, then he just wasn't that into you. Either he'll call or he won't based on his level of interest. No reading between those lines.
Christine52 Posted June 15, 2012 Posted June 15, 2012 Even if someone doesn't use a medium of communication often, or rarely, doesn't mean anything. If they're interested in you, they will dig through trash cans to find your number.
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