princess75 Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 I have feelings for this guy. I feel awesome with him..but I don't really know where I am standing with him. He says he has a great time with me and not to think much. We always make plans. Now after seeing him 3 consecutive weekends, I messed by saying he is my rebound guy. I actually got really scared cause this last weekend we kissed. And I am in the process of getting out of my previous relationship, an abusive one. Now, which is funny is I don't feel this new guy is a rebound. I feel I am genuinely interested in him, and would like to know him better. I have always a g8 time with him, and we are friends..till this weekend which we kissed. We are not anything, cause I told him you are a rebound. Since that day, he is different. He is still there, but I feel he is not emotionally into me. And I feel bad. I don't know how to know for sure what he feels for me. I don't want to take any step, cause I don't want to hurt myself nor him. I just feel he is not a rebound, but it is strange,cause I just broke up! How can u know if it is a rebound, should I leave it up to time? Thanks
diamondbloke Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 A 'rebound' is just a term we give to something. Every single case is unique. I would not confuse 'timing' with a 'rebound'. Just because this might have the same timing as a rebound does not necessairly make it so. No one is forcing you to think of it in terms of a rebound or not but you. Is it a rebound? Only you in your heart can know that. If it isn't so in your heart, then there you go, it is not a rebound.
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