Ruby Slippers Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Final response on my situation here... OK, I hear you. Next time, I won't let him come in. If he wants to hang out more, we can go somewhere else, take a walk, or something like that. It certainly won't hurt.
SmileFace Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Friendly reminder: This is my thread...so it'd be nice if I got a little more feedback on my situation...thanks I personally don't think you are ready to date. I am notsaying you aren't over your ex but you don't seem to actually know what youwant. However, I am no better but that is just how I see it. I think it will bebetter if actually stepped away from guys and dating for a while; not to getover your ex but allow yourself some time to reevaluate. Just IMHO You do seem content with dating but I think a break will be better.
Author tigressA Posted June 25, 2012 Author Posted June 25, 2012 I'm so sorry! I'm going to stop posting in this thread about my situation. I'll start one of my own if I feel the need I agree with your friends. Give him a chance. On the other hand, if your instincts are telling you his compliments are lines, that's something to pay attention to. I think it's great that you haven't had sex yet, because then you can assess everything more clearly. Oh, I'm paying attention to everything. I've deliberately been letting him do all the pursuing/initiating as well. I'm so much more into actions, not words, these days. If he keeps that up then I may start taking him seriously. He's incredibly hot and the attraction is such that we clutch at each other like hungry cats for hours. The last time I was this attracted to someone was with my ex-ex, C, and I got busy with him on our first date. That it hasn't happened yet is rather surprising. 1
HopelessRomantic76 Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Met a guy though a mutual friend with had great chemistry on the first date talked for hoours without awkward covnersation it was like we knew each other for years i dont want to get to excited or infatuated but iam excited!! and his baby blues:love:
HopelessRomantic76 Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Dooooo it! I cannot wait for the male-LS-poster hate I'm about to get after saying this, BUT... All the guys I've dated in the last 5 years, previous to my current BF, were on the shorter side. I'm between 5'8 - 5'9, and they were all 5'7-5'10. Not "short" per se, but shorter than or the same height as me. I was very attracted to them and honestly considered them my type. I was caught a little off guard by my boyfriend's height and build initially...6'4" and slim/athletic...just never really been my "type." But after getting to know him and developing emotional chemistry with him, I can honestly say I love his body and height and I love the fact that he's so much taller than me. I've never gotten to look dainty and cute in photos next to my boyfriend before, never had to stand on my tippy-toes to kiss my boyfriend before (without heels of course), and I have to admit, I love it. If I date again in the future will I rule out shorter guys? Of course not. I've dated them for years and would continue to date them if I met one I had chemistry with. My point was just that you should push the boundaries of your "type"...you might be surprised to figure out that you have a whole new "type" all together. Have fun!!! Same here i always went guys or on the shorter side to medium this new guys well over 6 feet and when he embraces me and holds me its something i never felt before:love: I dotn think im ever giving up this tall thing the experience is just amazing i feel so cherished protected and feminine:love:
PJKino Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Same here i always went guys or on the shorter side to medium this new guys well over 6 feet and when he embraces me and holds me its something i never felt before:love: I dotn think im ever giving up this tall thing the experience is just amazing i feel so cherished protected and feminine:love: Yet people say height doesnt matter for men and we whine for nothing
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