is it normal

[jnuberjosh]

My gf broke up with me on sat...she was very upset about it and hurt over something she thought I did, but I didn't...no it wasn't cheating, I would never..she said she was hurt tho and didn't think we could be the same . Said she needs time to heal and desk better.is it normal for a couple to break up and go thru something like this

[Philosoraptor]

If it was something you didn't do she likely wanted to end it and was just looking for an excuse so she wouldn't feel guilty.

[baseballgirl]

i broke up last saturday. he told me he didnt want to be in a relationship with me, and it isnt my fault. im in the the middle of my exams, yet he asked me to put my emotions away and to deal with it myself. it is hard to imagine someone who had loved you so much became someone who is so selfish and ignorant of your feelings.

 

i guess loving someone has many reasons, but breaking up doesnt. everything else is an excuse. the only words to owe is an apology.

[jnuberjosh]

Well she has trust issues from the past and she thinks I was still a member and logging onto dating sites. She did have some proof of this although it is some kind of error or something as I have not. She does not believe me tho. She was a trainwreck breaking up with me. I have not heard from her since Sunday tho. I am willing to help her with her trust issues but I don't know what I should do from here.

[Philosoraptor]

Well she has trust issues from the past and she thinks I was still a member and logging onto dating sites. She did have some proof of this although it is some kind of error or something as I have not. She does not believe me tho. She was a trainwreck breaking up with me. I have not heard from her since Sunday tho. I am willing to help her with her trust issues but I don't know what I should do from here.

All you can do in life is be honest. It's not your job to fix someone who has issues. If they're still hurting from their own past they likely shouldn't be getting into relationships yet anyways.