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How come women think there is no such thing as bad sex for men?


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They think a man should be happy just to get some, just to get "lucky". When a woman get's laid, she is not getting lucky, never, she is just making some guy lucky.

 

No woman would think she is bad in bed. I mean how can she be? All she has to do is just lay there and if guy gets off, well, good sex that was!

 

Women should be less selfish in bed and be more respectful toward men. We are human beings too. We also deserve good sex!

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I didn't really understand this post (suspect)....

 

The reason why women think this for men is our fault really. We prioritize it to the point where even crappy sex is seen as something good for us. If we were more discerning about who we have sex with, more giving in terms of the pleasure of our partners and just generally better at helping women to want to have and enjoy sex, then maybe we wouldn't have this problem.

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Its more external for men. Just like a "quicke". That's really for guys imo. Blowjobs, Handjobs, or even a quick ****. I don't care how long it takes, I don't stop touching the woman until she has her orgasm. You'd be surprised that not all women have the best orgasm with the penis. If you're good with your hands and tongue and lips,

you won't hear her complain.

You'll will hear her complain about when you guys are gonna do it again though.

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You always want what you can't have, and once you get it its like winning a prize. Simply put, girls can get some whenever they want while guys have to work for it. But this doesn't mean women don't look at it as getting lucky for themselves. If you're famous, girls will be all over it if you get my drift lol. Also, if you're in a relationship with a girl and you can control your sexual desires for a longer period of time than she can, she too will also view it as a prize...

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i think its to do with finishing, most of the time they see the guy get their reward but they dont always get theirs. this is what ive been told.

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No matter how hard a woman works in bed, she isn't guaranteed orgasm. It's much more difficult to achieve. So yes, she can just lay there and it's good enough because a man doesn't need to work hard to ejaculate. Hence why they are the "seed" spreaders. If it was hard for a man to orgasm, what would be the point of them being the ones to impregnate?

 

Men orgasm almost every single time. That's why it's hard to imagine a bad sex life if the guy is actually getting laid.

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Women should be less selfish in bed and be more respectful toward men. We also deserve good sex!

 

I find that very difficult to believe. If it were true, women would be pursuing men, and men would be dodging women.

 

Truth be told, there's a lot of cultural pressure on American men to have sex and like it. For plenty of men, sex is about as much enjoyment as having to eat vegetables.

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That's why I encourage women I know to masturbate! I mean just do it! It's there! It's yours! Because some women don't even know when they have an orgasm. Their legs shake and they squirt a little and they actually think that's an orgasm. But little do they know, they haven't reached the pinnacle yet. Lol

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This is to true ive slept with girls that were beautiful that were extremely tight and also pretty loose and i could tell who was a bad kisser and alot of the time they couldnt get me off. Has anyone heard of brewers droop though i think i have some kind of ed cause i cant get aroused unless i start beating it or something but im usually always drunk or on pills i lost my virginity on klonopin

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No woman would think she is bad in bed. I mean how can she be? All she has to do is just lay there and if guy gets off, well, good sex that was!

 

In my experience, that's the very definition of "bad sex," AKA "The Dead Fish."

 

I agree with Dan Savage's suggestion that sexual partners should strive to be, "good, giving and game." I'm sure that some people get-off on their female partner just lying there, but I suspect that those people are in the minority and most would prefer a more participative and responsive partner.

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No matter how hard a woman works in bed, she isn't guaranteed orgasm. It's much more difficult to achieve.

 

Which is why it's the dude's responsibility to put some sort of effort to help achieve this endstate.

 

"We're not done 'til she's done."

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Which is why it's the dude's responsibility to put some sort of effort to help achieve this endstate.

 

"We're not done 'til she's done."

 

If only all guys thought like you! I can't stand guys that just look after themselves and never care about turning us on at all. When this happens I drop the guy for good.

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