ThroneH Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 I sleep and talk to other women on a regular basis and unfortunately that just doesn't cut it. She doesn't have feelings for me, but I love her with all my heart. Nothing is ever going to change that. The pain has reached a point where it has become unbearable. I really don't know what to do. Also, she seems to get jealous of me talking to other girls, and snaps at me, calling them sluts etc. She's always asking me questions about who I like, who I've slept with, etc. Stalking my facebook to see what girls I talk to and what not. What does this mean? Thanks.
Philosoraptor Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 You're not moving on because you're still in contact with your ex. Sleeping with other people doesn't make it any easier and oftentimes makes it much worse when our heart is still tied up with someone else.
notalady Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 If she's your ex, why is she still demanding to know who you are seeing/sleeping with and whether you like them? It should not be any of her business. You can't get over her because she is still deeply involved in your love life, controlling it, questioning it. And you, perhaps, take it as a sign that she still cares and loves you, therefore makes it even harder to let go. The first thing to do to move on from an ex is to cut all contact! You may choose to remain friends later on, but right now, you need to cut it all off. Maybe for 6 months, or however long you need until you feel comfortable about contacting her again as platonic friends (and it may be never!). You've let it drag on for a year already, don't let it drag on any longer, it's not doing you any favours! Good luck!
Mr Scorpio Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 1) At least you are talking to/sleeping with other women. That is a lot more than most people who are still infatuated with an ex would be doing. 2) If unrequited love from your ex is giving you unbearable pain, why are you still in contact with her?
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