Hote204 Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Hi Its been a while since i have been on here and have recently met a new man after a horendous split from my ex. I will be as short and direct as possible about my situation. We met 3 months after he had split from the mother of his child after an 8 yr relationship which ended after she met someone else. She was with the new boyf whilst we were together and then they split. He calls time on us saying he is not over her. I give him space for a few weeks and he comes back saying he was wrong and wants to be with me. In short, his ex is a nightmare. Shes called me black and basically messes with his head (i have never met this girl). She doesnt let him see his child when he wants and makes it hard, esp if we have planned to do something and she doesnt like it. Its recently dawned on me that he is telling her what we have been doing and they are in regular contact. Whilst i know this has to happen for the sake of his child, it seems to me their relationship is still entwined. They have conversations about if she has met someone new, if she should take certain jobs (like club promotions!) etc etc. At one point he said he hated her but i have a feeling i am being used as a bit of a pawn in this game. We went away for the weekend and he text her to say he would be late picking his child up and she replied "dont bother..stay with HER"!!! In every other way, he is great. He treats me great, takes me places, tells me he loves me and makes future plans about living together etc. am i being paranoid? Ive never dated someone with a child so i dont know. She still lets herself into his house and goes into his bedroom..it doesnt seem right. she hates me..i dont like her..but is he fueling the fire?/
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