So Is This True?

[WonderKid]

I was on Facebook and caught this status that a girl posted. She said:

 

MEN! Women don't want a gentleman. You're wrong. We want to date *******s. Then when we are dating them we want to turn them into gentlemen.

 

Now I just HAD to jump on this one. I just found that hilarious in my opinion.

 

So I say:

 

Good luck changing an *******. Why put yourself through the stress? Why play the games? Go for the gentleman.

 

Another guy came on and basically flamed her saying why turn a guy into something they're not? If you can't accept them for who they are in the first place why date them? And telling her that she should use her brain.

 

She replies

Woah woah woah. I'm trying to help the nice guys! All I'm saying is don't smother her with romance until after she's yours and before that pretend she doesn't matter. MY man is a nerd who acts like a dick in public. When its just the two of us he's a gentleman. Am I making sense now?

 

So I tell her next

I'm a nice guy and I don't smother them with romance. I smother them with respect. And if a woman doesn't want that I don't know what else to do for her. I'm not gonna be an ******* in public. I'd rather be myself. And her to accept me for who I am and what I stand for as I will do the same for her. Not be fake in public nor alone with her.

 

Then she was pissed and said:

Hey don't tell me I'm the type of girl who doesn't want respect. I've always been the girl who gives nice guys a chance I'm just trying to give you guys a chance. If you look close at this status you'll see men bitching and women liking it. I'm not saying I like how it works I'm just saying it works.

 

So I told her that I was never implying that she was that type of girl.

She was saying how her bf acts this way because strangers aren't worth his kindness. She says gentlemen should hold back. She was just "telling me how women are". And said that she didn't make up the "rule" she's just trying to get me into women's heads.

 

I just chose not to argue because in my opinion that is the dumbest **** I ever heard in my life. You KNOW only a girl could think that **** up. I've messed with "Women". Women with maturity. And if I pulled any stunt in public being an ******* they would've dropped me on the spot.

 

Does anyone have insights on this? Do you agree with what she stated? Ever heard of something like this?

[rubberduck]

I think she's got a childs mentality with regards to dating. People should be with eachother because they love each other, not for the acting they do in public. Sounds like a load of rubbish to me. I LOVE romance!!!

[Andy_K]

"The True Measure Of A Man Is How He Treats Someone Who Can Do Him Absolutely No Good"

 

A good man is one who treats with respect and kindness those he doesn't have to, and when he'll gain nothing from it. Until they show themselves to be unworthy of any respect, of course.

 

Strangers should not have to 'earn' your respect or common courtesy. If everyone treated people like crap until they were 'worth' being nice to, the world would not be a very nice place to be.

[Emilia]

So I told her that I was never implying that she was that type of girl.

She was saying how her bf acts this way because strangers aren't worth his kindness. She says gentlemen should hold back. She was just "telling me how women are". And said that she didn't make up the "rule" she's just trying to get me into women's heads.

 

I just chose not to argue because in my opinion that is the dumbest **** I ever heard in my life. You KNOW only a girl could think that **** up. I've messed with "Women". Women with maturity. And if I pulled any stunt in public being an ******* they would've dropped me on the spot.

 

Does anyone have insights on this? Do you agree with what she stated? Ever heard of something like this?

 

Her and her boyfriend are idiots who think kindness is a sign of weakness She thinks a strong man is the type that picks fights with strangers I guess.

 

I wouldn't be friends with people like that.