H affair leads to OW pregnant going crazy

[toosoft]

If she is preg, there is a long long road ahead with so many avenues to turn down.

 

No doubt the OW was desperate. Im in the same position your H is in, but 4 years further down the line. The OW in my story was desperate too... she was unhappy and saw me as her ticket to happiness. She lied to me about being on BC and stupidly I bought the story. Its true, men are ruled by their taggers!

 

Cutting a massively complicated story short. W and I decided to work through things and have contact with OC. My W is fond of OC, he has been a part of our lives since his birth. BUT, OC is a double edged sword, a constant reminder of my infidelity. A year ago my W wobbled and went off with another man, (we separated), it didnt work, so she tried another and another and another. All the time making herself very ill mentally. Now a year later, the D papers are filed (by me) and im left feeling enormous guilt for what ive done. I still love my W dearly and regret the A. My beautiful previously honest loyal W is no longer recognisable - I broke her. Moral of the story, look after yourself, if the OW is pregnant, you have many years of emotional stress ahead. Be strong and tell your H from me, he's an idiot and his membership pack to my club is on its way....

[pattyfromMV]

Thanks too soft! i'm sure he already became a member of the club and is ranked CEO. Honestly I can see the guilt he carries for hurting me like that .I hope she really does move away far away!

[scatterd]

So sorry for what you are going through being betrayed is hard enough with out a poor baby involved.

[pink_sugar]

Well I am sure glad unlike another poster here that you definitely would not take out your agressions on the baby and see that it has no control over the situation. However, this is your husband and best friend. If it were me, I don't think I'd ever be able to forgive either of them. Good luck, I hope things end up better for the both of you.