jenniferq36 Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 So we broke up for the second time 2 months ago... Of course he contacted me every week with some mundane texts. After a month of me cooling off without talking to him, we met up and chatted abit. Since then we been out a couple of times. Of course he tries to be intimate but no way I have allowed anything to happen. Before that we broke up cuz we had a huge fight. His married friend was hitting on me and he refused to do anything about it. After the fight, he wanted to break up. So I said ok. I noticed that he always goes dutch couple of times. I m bothered by it but didnt say anything about. He drunk dials me every weekend. Last weekend we went for a movie and of course we go dutch again. He dropped me off and when he gets home, he asks me to send him a naughty picture. I refused and he texted me back 'damn wasted my time;p'. I know he was trying to make it sound like a joke. But that was the straw that broke the camel's back. I think i know in my head that he is being a jerk. But I kept quiet until he texted me yesterday. I called and told him off. That he was being a jerk and I m not going to put up with it. He said he cant believe I took that seriously and that yeah so don't put up it. And I hung up. So am I overreacting (which I think I m not cuz it is really leaving a bad taste in mouth) or is he a jerk? I think I know the answer but sometimes we can be wrong. So I thought your opinions. Cheers Jess p/s we are in our very early 30s.
DEABQ Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 He is in his early 30's and: He doesn't defend you. He drunk dials you every weekend. He is cheap. He doesn't apologize when you are offended. What do you think? I say take your self respect and find an adult to date.
carhill Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 I suddenly had to add 10 years to their ages. I would have guessed early 20's. Jerk? IMO, nah; he's being immature. A man-boy. Some women like varying degrees of man-boyishness. 'Boys will be boys' and all that. Up to you if you want to play along. So far, it appears you have. Go black-hole NC for a month and see how it goes. Welcome to LS
Author jenniferq36 Posted June 14, 2012 Author Posted June 14, 2012 Lol carhill.....sorry for misleading you at first....thanks for the advice... Deabq...yeah i think I know all of the above...thanks for the advice....now I will do that!...
Chi townD Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Yeah, you need to go NC with him. Everytime you two get together, it's filling him with a warped sense of false hope. If you have no intentions of getting back with him, then you made the decision to have him out of your life. Time to walk the walk and talk the talk.
Author jenniferq36 Posted June 14, 2012 Author Posted June 14, 2012 Chi_town....i dont think i m giving him false hope....really...if i know him well, i think he wants to make sure i m not moving on without him...and that i ll take whatever he throws...thats why he is behaving like how he is..taking it for granted.......
Chi townD Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Chi_town....i dont think i m giving him false hope....really...if i know him well, i think he wants to make sure i m not moving on without him...and that i ll take whatever he throws...thats why he is behaving like how he is..taking it for granted....... Yeah...false hope.
Author jenniferq36 Posted June 14, 2012 Author Posted June 14, 2012 oh...ohhhhh i get what u mean........oh lol i didnt know that.... Ok now I got it.....lol
Tiera D Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 Yes he is a jerk and yes u should go NC,obviously he treats you like some kind of emergency fix..which is very immature TD
Author jenniferq36 Posted June 15, 2012 Author Posted June 15, 2012 Thanks Tiera......i agree and am doing that...
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