My whirlwind, unhealthy relationship story. A long (hopefully interesting) read.

[joopjoop90]

I believe that my relationship was unhealthy. I had to write the experience down. It's a 5-page read, but its something I had to write out. I'm picking up the pieces of myself, doubting myself and how I acted in this relationship, and for now, I am jaded against women. They say some people are crazy-making, and if that's true, then I seem to have caught one.

 

I am totally and utterly confused, but I'm slowly moving on.

 

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1TjuDMqq7vDmKSKtvr1Iwth1xz1T9fwj65MZSKsBvEXY/edit

[CopingGal]

Here's some information on Histrionic Personality Disorder. It doesn't sound like she has the disorder, but she seems to have some strong traits.

 

Histrionic Personality Disorder Symptoms, Causes, Treatments

[VandelayInd]

I cant even begin to describe how similar this girl sounds to my ex. Everything.. from her "motherly nature" she claimed to have, to the constant stomach cramps, to the baby blanket except mine didnt have a blanket-- she sucked her thumb instead.

 

I know how you feel man, I was super outgoing, cocky, funny, life of the party type of guy, and then slowly I started to lose that because I was, like you, walking on eggshells around my gf because I didnt want to piss her off and get into a fight. So I lost some of my personality I guess you could say. Its still in there somewhere but its scared to come back out. All my friends and family keep telling me how bad she was for me and how manipulative she was etc. And I do see that now, as do you for your ex I assume... but its so tough to just throw the feelings away even though you know this girl is poison.

 

I literally felt like I was reading my own story there!