i am hurting and may be hurting others!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! me

[marilla]

Hello. Please help me as i am in so much pain.

A guy rejected me to be with someone else.Of course that really hurt me and i told him so. Now he is back, very remorseful and wants to try again. I am however confused and scared. Seeing his effort i have made some small steps towards him, like talking more and he seems very happy. However i am still confused as to what i want even though there are feelings inside of me.

I don't want to be leading him on or harm him because of my confusion. And to make things worse there is a great girl interested in him. I have seen them hanging out and i looked jealous. Unfortunately he picked on it and he is cutting her out of his life now. I don't want him to not hang out with her or miss his chance as she is really a nice person but on the other hand i do have feelings for this guy and i am confused.

What do i do?

I thought of telling him that i am confused and hurt, that i am open to talking more but slowly and that i don't want to be an obstacle in his other choices.

What do you think? will that sound as if i am sending him to others and that i don't care ?

Should i simply say that i am not bothered by a man seeing many women and leave it at that ?

please he is a nice guy even though he rejected me at first and i dont want to hurt him! please help me!