Williams4620 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I started talking to this girl a few weeks ago and we really seems to be for eachother as far as what we wanted we saw eachother a lot for about a week. But it has been over a week since I have heard from her. We wre together on a Saturday night the she just stopped talking to me ignoring text and calls. I later found out she felt smothered by me from a friend. Since I heard that I have not tried to talk to her. Is there any chance I could I will get a second chance with this girl I really liked her. How long should I wait to try totally to her again
Philosoraptor Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 If she's ignoring you she's not really interested anymore. Simple as that. 1
username70 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I started talking to this girl a few weeks ago and we really seems to be for eachother as far as what we wanted we saw eachother a lot for about a week. But it has been over a week since I have heard from her. We wre together on a Saturday night the she just stopped talking to me ignoring text and calls. I later found out she felt smothered by me from a friend. Since I heard that I have not tried to talk to her. Is there any chance I could I will get a second chance with this girl I really liked her. How long should I wait to try totally to her again Let her call- and maybe she will- if not- move on
january2011 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 A second chance is highly unlikely, in my opinion. She felt suffocated you've become associated with a negative emotion - therefore unlikely that she would want to experience that again. And given the short amount of time you've had to build up any kind of bond, there's unlikely to be anything there to outweigh her negative opinion of being with you. I strongly advise you to stop trying to contact her and move on. 1
Christine52 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I had a guy do that to me recently. He was texting me constantly for days, and asking me to do random things with him all the time. He gave me compliments and flirted a lot. Eventually I had to give him strong signals by responding with short, curt responses. He eventually got the picture and has backed off considerably. Since he's backed off, I have renewed interest in him, albeit as just friends only since we are on the same volleyball team. Now we hang out once in a while as friends, and he is well aware that I have no romantic interest in him. If two people click as friends, but not as lovers, who's to say you can't keep a friendship with them? Sometimes when guys are ONLY interested in relationships and don't want friendships with women, it makes me wonder what kind of substance they have. Show her you are mature, by backing off, if she contacts you, let her know you would really like to be friends, and then enjoy life together
thatone Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Sometimes when guys are ONLY interested in relationships and don't want friendships with women, it makes me wonder what kind of substance they have. Show her you are mature, by backing off, if she contacts you, let her know you would really like to be friends, and then enjoy life together they have the self respect to not be taken advantage of by you. i'm sure your scenario sounds great...to you. you get all of the non physical attention you want from those guys without having to do anything in return. the ones who will have no trouble finding a girl somewhere else are the ones who say no.
mortensorchid Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 She's not picking up your calls/texts because she's not interested anymore for whatever reason. If it's one thing I have learned thanks to the advent of texting, it's that some men feel free to text and bother women. Not that you did this, but in the online world I have had some who have badgered me for another photo when they really wanted to see one of me naked. Move on.
Christine52 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 they have the self respect to not be taken advantage of by you. i'm sure your scenario sounds great...to you. you get all of the non physical attention you want from those guys without having to do anything in return. the ones who will have no trouble finding a girl somewhere else are the ones who say no. Assuming a girl who wants to just be friends is using the guy for attention, is more than a little harsh and is very telling on how one views female friendships in general.
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