irc333 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Okay, I was reading one of my latest FB statuses of one of my friend's friend. They were conversing about issues dealing with their ex's, mostly financial...dealing with getting them to pay child support, but don't have the money to pay for child support. This woman was saying how her looser ex has no job, no money, lives with his mother, and is behind 25,000 in child support, and plans on taking him to court for it. And she's scratchin her head on how he's managed to get a girlfriend...that gives him money. Now....I saw a related post about having "success" with women.....how is it some of us guys that don't even fall into the realm of the man I just mentioned, are struggling...while the man mentioned here could snap his fingers and get one? Perhaps this guy could write a book called, "How to get a woman, with no job, no home, lives with his parents." BOOK? lol Seriously, why some of us struggle, while this guy can still land women?
january2011 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 (edited) The girlfriend sees value in something other than his current circumstances. Unless you're after the same girl or similar girls, her preferences and choices and those of girls like her aren't important or relevant, in my opinion. As to why you struggle to land women. I think that's down to your preferences and choices. In and of themselves, there's nothing inherently wrong with having preferences and choices, as long as you accept that they will limit the size of your dating pool. Edited June 13, 2012 by january2011
Author irc333 Posted June 13, 2012 Author Posted June 13, 2012 The girlfriend sees value in something other than his current circumstances. Unless you're after the same girl or similar girls, her preferences and choices and those of girls like her aren't important or relevant, in my opinion. As to why you struggle to land women. I think that's down to your preferences and choices. In and of themselves, there's nothing inherently wrong with having preferences and choices, as long as you accept that they will limit the size of your dating pool. SO I cannot necessarily say, "Hey, if THIS guy can land a woman, so can you!"?
january2011 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 SO I cannot necessarily say, "Hey, if THIS guy can land a woman, so can you!"? Perhaps you can, as a sweeping generalisation. I've often said that every relationship dynamic is unique. You just need to find one woman who is compatible with you who meets all your non-negotiable criteria and the perfect storm of circumstances that allow you to build a long-term relationship with her. That is, if an LTR is what you're after.
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