ATrainofAngels Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 number one turn off for me is trashy or stupid 1
Woggle Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Because they are loads of fun and are down to do whatever. They aren't always so prissy and snobby about everything and don't aren't always unhappy about everything. They know how to just live life to it's fullest and despite what people might think in many cases they are actually better wives and girlfriends. They let a man be himself and since they embrace their wild side in many cases are much less likely to cheat than a woman who puts on a facade of classiness while having her dirty little secrets. I might not want a happy meal but most of the time I prefer to eat at the local cheesesteak place or local pizzeria over some overpriced fancy restaurant with mediocre food. 1
zengirl Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Define "trashy," Hokey, as there are different kinds. There's a certain kind of trashy that isn't flaky or dangerous, and I think men like THAT kind because there's a kind of exuberance, honesty, and openness to them, as well as they're just easy --- not meaning just the sexual term, but just easy to be with in many ways. Quality women and the type men more often marry often take a bit more work, generally. Sometimes a man doesn't feel up to the kind of work a serious R takes. Of course there are trashy girls who will steal your wallet and slit your throat too and trashy girls who will sleep with your best friend and trashy girls who will make your life chaotic and so forth. All different kinds, really. Especially if you keep them around too long. The same is true of 'bad boys' --- there are variations of them. Some more harmless than others. None of them are great to be kept around long-term, but some I could see the short-term allure, depending on one's goals.
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Appealing to who? You know, I thought the same thing myself immediately and this one of those things where I feel a complete disconnect from other men but then I think back to thinking objectively and generalizing men as a whole again because they are the vast majority and I get back into the right mindset. I've never personally had any appeal to trashy women...It's almost the same to me as eating a beef patty you found on the street outside a Mcdonalds...you have no idea where it's been and what's been done to it. I don't in any way see the appeal in it, sure it's cheaper and judging from just taste close to as satisfying as buying one and maybe with your eyes closed you might not be able to taste the difference assuming there was no foreign objects attached like gravel or gum but I still fail to see the alluring quality myself. So for myself I'd rather buy one from inside, even though who knows what's been done to that patty, at least you've got a greater chance of getting some decent. However growing up as a man, being around men, and listening to what men have to say and what they do...they in fact definitely do like trashy women, maybe not for relationships but for a side or one time thing. I guess it's the fact that they're a sure thing, appearing to be much more "laidback" and promiscuous so you'll see a huddle of men on a woman like this like a bunch of seagulls at the beach after a bag of chips. Except I would feel more confident eating out the bag of chips than eating out that girl. I think for a lot of men too, they wish all women were this easy and had their walls this low and were up to just "having fun/a good time", I think a good deal of men find themselves outclassed by women with standards, feeling like they have a sense of entitlement and a royalty complex (which some do), so when a girl lke this is just not making you jump through many hoops I think a lot of these men can appreciate that and take it for what it is. However again, playing sports...which typically end up being the more desirable men or at least a magnet for trashygirls...word definitely got around who you could get a quick BJ from or some bathroom/bleacher/cheap motel doggy style action with. A lot of guys If not most I've seen not have the greatest standards and wouldn't have any shame or qualms about using up one of these trashy girls that was readily available like a call girl on craigslist. Was pretty nasty, all guys weren't into it but It's not like these guys didn't have other options or girlfriends, they still took the easy road. With that being said, some women like to act trashy but then get pissed off when men assume they are that way...like dave chapelle says " You may not be a ho, it's not right to judge!...but you're dressed like one..all I'm saying, it's confusin!" something to that affect...some women want to things that bring them attention, act "wild" and carefree and with no class but then expect men to perceive that as them having any kind of strandard, which is just silly.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Ninjainpajamas I think for a lot of men too, they wish all women were this easy and had their walls this low and were up to just "having fun/a good time", I think a good deal of men find themselves outclassed by women with standards, feeling like they have a sense of entitlement and a royalty complex (which some do), so when a girl lke this is just not making you jump through many hoops I think a lot of these men can appreciate that and take it for what it is. But they don't really "appreciate" these women Ninjainpajamas. What they appreciate is that they get easy sex without anything being required of them. They apreciate being able to use someone and not actually have to work for gaining a woman's respect or trust. If they "appreciated" these women, then they would take them home to mom. What they fail to realize is if they bang the "trashy girl", they *ARE* just like the "trashy girl". Yet they consider themselves above said girl. Isn't that the same thing they dislike about women that aren't as "easy"? It's all very hypocritical. ...some women want to things that bring them attention, act "wild" and carefree and with no class but then expect men to perceive that as them having any kind of strandard, which is just silly. And some men want to bang the trashy girls, then act like they are better then said trashy girl because they don't think she is "mom material". Despite the fact that he was engaging in the same behavior! Sily as well. But you don't see women, even female comics making up "funny" lines about "hos".
gaius Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 One of my ex's admitted to smoking occasionally while on the toilet, I found that so sexy for some reason. Wanted to commission a portrait of it. She didn't think I was funny.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 One of my ex's admitted to smoking occasionally while on the toilet, I found that so sexy for some reason. Wanted to commission a portrait of it. She didn't think I was funny. I have a small book of Bible scriptures by my toilet and read it when I'm just sitting there..is that sexy too?
gaius Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I have a small book of Bible scriptures by my toilet and read it when I'm just sitting there..is that sexy too? What would it cost me for a portrait of that? 1
Woggle Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Many men think these women are good for a quick lay but maybe they are also good for marriage and relationships. I am not talking about trainwrecks with substance abuse issues that will slit your throat in a second but women who know how to let their hair down and have some fun without being so tightly wound all the time. The classy and elegant women are just as likely to cheat on you and treat you like crap plus more likely to nag and be dissatisfied with everything. Men want a woman we can breathe around and actually have fun with in and out of the bedroom and these women with a little bit of a wild side are the kind of women we can do that with. They just get men in a way that many other women don't.
Sanman Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 And some men want to bang the trashy girls, then act like they are better then said trashy girl because they don't think she is "mom material". Despite the fact that he was engaging in the same behavior! Sily as well. But you don't see women, even female comics making up "funny" lines about "hos". I have seen female comics joke about such things. To be fair, mom material may have nothing to with having sex with the guy. For example. having sex with a jobless coke head does not make the guy a cocaine addict or jobless too. Now, if he called her a slut, that is a different story.
Sanman Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Many men think these women are good for a quick lay but maybe they are also good for marriage and relationships. I am not talking about trainwrecks with substance abuse issues that will slit your throat in a second but women who know how to let their hair down and have some fun without being so tightly wound all the time. The classy and elegant women are just as likely to cheat on you and treat you like crap plus more likely to nag and be dissatisfied with everything. Men want a woman we can breathe around and actually have fun with in and out of the bedroom and these women with a little bit of a wild side are the kind of women we can do that with. They just get men in a way that many other women don't. I think that the ideal is someone fun that has their stuff together. However, many feel it is a choice between the trashy, exciting chick that will do you in the bathroom and give you road head and the prudish good girl that only wants it missionary, in the bedroom, and only on pre-determined days. 1
Christine52 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Hahha maybe you shouldn't have used the word "trashy" but we all get what you're getting at. 1. Sexual excitement in the bedroom 2. You not having to initiate sex all the time 3. She not being a dud in bed 4. She will reciprocate your advances and flirt back because she's not a prude. Everyone loves that. Instead of trashy, just say, "outgoing, fun loving, easy going, and sexy". To me, that about sums it up. If I completely misunderstood your post, then you are probably a minority, who just wants sex, and wouldn't really want to settle down with said type of woman. 1
ThaWholigan Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I think that the ideal is someone fun that has their stuff together. However, many feel it is a choice between the trashy, exciting chick that will do you in the bathroom and give you road head and the prudish good girl that only wants it missionary, in the bedroom, and only on pre-determined days. Agree. Such a black and white way of seeing things. Anyone ever think that the nice quiet, prudish looking librarian girl, might just be that one chick who is super-freaky, rocks out at a festival every now and then, and has a spontaneous wild side to her that she manages. Don't know why there is such a divide, when a lot of girls usually range in-between.
Woggle Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I think that the ideal is someone fun that has their stuff together. However, many feel it is a choice between the trashy, exciting chick that will do you in the bathroom and give you road head and the prudish good girl that only wants it missionary, in the bedroom, and only on pre-determined days. True but it seems that any woman who knows how to have fun and is not interested in being MS Elegent gets called trashy. Truth be told these kind of women will treat a man better than many of the so called classy ones.
SteveC80 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Because some exude sex appeal and make you think theyll f the **** out of you wheter its true who knows Liek how theyres some porn stars id never want to wake up next to or be in a relationship with but because of what they do on screen they turn you on in a raw sexual animalistic primal way
Christine52 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 The entire female cast of Jersey Shore...? And the like. They are also extremely prevalent where I live. Tattooed up and pierced in places you didn't even know existed, etc. Someone you probably wouldn't want to bring home to mom... If you want to get with Jersey Shore type of people, then look and act like a Guido. I don't mean to use that word in a derogatory way, just as an anthropological way to describe what I'm describing. Then you'll get those kind of people
Woggle Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Jersey Shore is not a good representation of working class Italian culture which is what guido really is. Most guidettes do not act like the women on that show. Sure they love to have fun and party but they don't get drunk and run into the street dancing in the middle of traffic.
Pyro Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 If you want to get with Jersey Shore type of people, then look and act like a Guido. I don't mean to use that word in a derogatory way, just as an anthropological way to describe what I'm describing. Then you'll get those kind of people I fail to see the appeal of those type of women, but different strokes and that is what makes the world go round. Trashy girls do not appeal to me
Pyro Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Because some exude sex appeal and make you think theyll f the **** out of you wheter its true who knows Liek how theyres some porn stars id never want to wake up next to or be in a relationship with but because of what they do on screen they turn you on in a raw sexual animalistic primal way Seems like the other head on men is the only part of them that are attracted to the trashy type.
Christine52 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Jersey Shore is not a good representation of working class Italian culture which is what guido really is. Most guidettes do not act like the women on that show. Sure they love to have fun and party but they don't get drunk and run into the street dancing in the middle of traffic. Thank you for the clarification Woggle, I am relieved it is not an accurate representation of Guidos, but rather an extreme one. I alter my comment: just act like an extremely macho, really muscular/fit, party animal and they will come a runnin'! 1
Woggle Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Thank you for the clarification Woggle, I am relieved it is not an accurate representation of Guidos, but rather an extreme one. I alter my comment: just act like an extremely macho, really muscular/fit, party animal and they will come a runnin'! It is not even an accurate representation of people at the Jersey Shore. 1
Ross MwcFan Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I guess some people can't be bothered with fine dining at the Ritz when a Happy Meal at McDonald's will do. That's just a normal everyday person where I live.
Star Gazer Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I don't know any quality men who find trashy women appealing.
FitChick Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I guess men find it much easier to discard a trashy woman without guilt.
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