USMCHokie Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 As the title states, why are "trashy" girls so appealing...?!
ThaWholigan Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 They tend to be exuberant at times, and it draws you in. If they are hot, that usually doubles the effect. There are times when trashy is too much though, when they start drinking too much or just generally doing things that can put them in dangerous situations for themselves. I think I like wild more than trashy. Wild and eccentric is more my type of girl than trashy. 1
Cracker Jack Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I dunno. I was wondering the same a few days ago. I guess it's because most of them have that "do me now, really hard and don't hold back" aura around them or something. Stuff like that in general just gets me going. Also, the nasty ideas just seem so...endless when you look at them. But yeah, it's cool to an extent. Some can really go overboard with it. 1
ThaWholigan Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I dunno. I was wondering the same a few days ago. I guess it's because most of them have that "do me now, really hard and don't hold back" aura around them or something. Stuff like that in general just gets me going. Also, the nasty ideas just seem so...endless when you look at them. But yeah, it's cool to an extent. Some can really go overboard with it. I couldn't agree more 1
Cracker Jack Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 And like you, I tend to favor the "wild" over the trashy women. Don't get me wrong, both types can get it. It's just, wild is far more natural to me. Guess it's those primal instincts speaking... 2
Author USMCHokie Posted June 13, 2012 Author Posted June 13, 2012 Well, one thought, at least for me, is that it's an ego thing...I've always observed the "trashy" girls exclusively going after the "trashy" guys...and I always wondered what they had that I didn't...and I guess it sort of bothered me that these guys who seemingly had nothing to offer were getting something so easily that I couldn't...
AH1990 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Well, one thought, at least for me, is that it's an ego thing...I've always observed the "trashy" girls exclusively going after the "trashy" guys...and I always wondered what they had that I didn't...and I guess it sort of bothered me that these guys who seemingly had nothing to offer were getting something so easily that I couldn't... Just because it's easy doesn't mean it's good.
Author USMCHokie Posted June 13, 2012 Author Posted June 13, 2012 Just because it's easy doesn't mean it's good. It certainly hasn't been remotely close to easy...
january2011 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I guess some people can't be bothered with fine dining at the Ritz when a Happy Meal at McDonald's will do. 1
Author USMCHokie Posted June 13, 2012 Author Posted June 13, 2012 Define trashy The entire female cast of Jersey Shore...? And the like. They are also extremely prevalent where I live. Tattooed up and pierced in places you didn't even know existed, etc. Someone you probably wouldn't want to bring home to mom...
Pyro Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 The entire female cast of Jersey Shore...? And the like. They are also extremely prevalent where I live. Tattooed up and pierced in places you didn't even know existed, etc. Someone you probably wouldn't want to bring home to mom... Some reasons why certain men find trashy girls appealing: -One or more of their characteristics and/or physical appearance turns them on -They have boring lives or bring drama with them where ever they go, which makes a trashy girl a great addition into their lives -They think that trashy girls are freaky and will give them a great lay -They have tried to attract non-trashy women but they don't connect.
Author USMCHokie Posted June 13, 2012 Author Posted June 13, 2012 Appealing to who? You've never found them the least bit appealing...?
DuchessKaye Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 As the title states, why are "trashy" girls so appealing...?! Are they? According to all the guys that I know of, THEY AREN'T... 3
somedude81 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 You've never found them the least bit appealing...? Nope. I hate most piercings and tats on girls. Girls that are slutty and wild don't do anything for me. They sound like they'd be horrible girlfriends and only good for a screw. I don't see any reason to choose a trashy girl over a 'good girl.' 2
Author USMCHokie Posted June 13, 2012 Author Posted June 13, 2012 Are they? According to all the guys that I know of, THEY AREN'T... Well, not necessarily for the long term...unless you happen to have some sort of complex where you feel compelled to change them or "reveal" their inner "good" nature...
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 They sound like they'd be horrible girlfriends and only good for a screw. Only when they carry wrenches. 1
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Why do women like bad boys? Sincerely, (Some) LS Men Dear (Some) LS Men, (Some) women like bad boys. (Some) men like bad (see:trashy) girls. At the end of the day, we all need love. Recongnize which people are emotionally stable and healthy and bad boys/bad girls loose their appeal. From, DY 1
somedude81 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Only when they carry wrenches. What if they are wenches?
Pasttense Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Are they? According to all the guys that I know of, THEY AREN'T... There is a possibility these guys are telling you what they think you want to hear.
ascendotum Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I guess some people can't be bothered with fine dining at the Ritz when a Happy Meal at McDonald's will do. Absolutely. You can walk away from both patting your belly and with a sated appetite. Unlike the past generations when it comes to relationships these days you don't have to weigh up the short term & long term pros & cons when it comes to a partner. When you change what you want out of a relationship or your partner's negative aspects start to outweigh the positive ones you change your partner. I'm like you W..."Wild and eccentric is more my type of girl than trashy". Boozy, loud, over done makeup, ladette girls dont appeal to me. A lot of those girls on the show, 'Snog.marry.avoid' you would only want to know for the sex. A women like Kat Von D is a different story however. Kat Von D - AskMen. I'm guilty of having had a trashy gf though.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 What if they are wenches? Are you looking to date girls from the cast of Pirates of The Caribbean now?
Eclypse Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 There was this one girl who slept with half of my sports team (and about half the country too according to her). She was as skanky and trashy as you can get and yet... I was wild for her. We never ended up actually sleeping together though. I pulled out before then, but there's something about those kinds of girls that just gets a lot of men wild. I'm guessing the whole "freaky" thing is the best way to describe it. She told me this guy who she was madly in love with her asked her to have anal with him. She happily obliged (her first time) and then the next day he just ignored her and never talked to her again. I don't think I could do that to someone... so I ended up waiting for another girl.
Emilia Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 There are relatively few truly wild girls around but quite a few trashy and 'pretend wild' ones. I find wild exciting too, I think it's very primal and can be extremely sexy. A friend of mine once said he loved dating manic depressives, I think that was for the same reason as well. Trashy is just uncouth, puts me off in men though I do like physical 'blue collar' men, I enjoy the raw physicality. Wouldn't call them trashy though, more rough diamond I think.
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