Ross MwcFan Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 If you imagine the scenario without him laughing, smiling, or joking, it takes on a whole different vibe doesn't it? It just makes it seem worse. But even with him laughing and smiling it still comes across as damned weird and creepy.
SJC2008 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 He was confident, aggressive, sure of what he wanted and had a good sense of humor. That kind of guy is not that normal in America unfortunately for women. The lame, jealous, whiny and passive ones are in much greater abundance. When you're daughter comes home and tells you she got a date and you ask her where she met him and then she tells you a guy pulled up on her and got out and walked with her and then asked for her number, and you don't freak out and blow a gasket and give her a hug bc you're so happy for her and tell her now that's a confident man who knows what he wants I'll take what you said seriously. 1
Emilia Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 When you're daughter comes home and tells you she got a date and you ask her where she met him and then she tells you a guy pulled up on her and got out and walked with her and then asked for her number, and you don't freak out and blow a gasket and give her a hug bc you're so happy for her and tell her now that's a confident man who knows what he wants I'll take what you said seriously. I don't know how old the OP is but I'm assuming she is an adult?
Emilia Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I don't know how old the OP is but I'm assuming she is an adult? Yep, it says '30' on her profile. Maybe give her the benefit of the doubt, eh?
SJC2008 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 I don't know how old the OP is but I'm assuming she is an adult? I don't know if she has a daughter. It was to put what she said into context so she could look at it from a different view.
Drseussgrrl Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 This happened to me once. Not exactly, but I had a dude follow me from Victoria's Secret down to a restaurant where I was meeting my friends. He got a table, I guess called a buddy to meet him there, and then sat making eyes at me. Then, coming back from the bathroom, he was there and struck up a convo. He was attractive, funny, confident, and I was SO flattered. He turned out to be a huge c*cky ********* when all was said and done. Just nope.
musemaj11 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 This happened to me once. Not exactly, but I had a dude follow me from Victoria's Secret down to a restaurant where I was meeting my friends. He got a table, I guess called a buddy to meet him there, and then sat making eyes at me. Then, coming back from the bathroom, he was there and struck up a convo. He was attractive, funny, confident, and I was SO flattered. He turned out to be a huge c*cky ********* when all was said and done. Just nope. Even men who were born with cassanova talents in him won't be so smooth unless they have done it many times before.
Author Lil1 Posted June 13, 2012 Author Posted June 13, 2012 ooohh :( Found out he has an 8 year old kid (he is 28). Kids are a deal breaker for me. I made this clear to him, he understands and wished me the best, didn't even try to pull the "oh let's be friends" crap most of them do. The date was otherwise great, he was a lot of fun to hang out with, but that was that. I'm really surprised at all the haters here, male and female alike (D-Lish I gotta admit I was disappointed by your reaction... I've always had respect for you) Anyway, I'm not sure why I'm surprised, I guess I should have expected it. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. Whatevs, all I can do is live my life with an honest heart and an open mind. Peace and love to all you haters, you motivate me! 2
veggirl Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Ignore the buzzkills. Glad you had a good time, even if it's not going to go anywhere (kids are a dealbreaker for me, too. Esp an 8 yr old kid when the guy is only 28 dang!) 2
Ross MwcFan Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Hope you've not seen me as being a hater Lil1. I was just giving my honest opinion. Sorry things didn't work out. 1
mortensorchid Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Ah well, better luck next time. But glad to hear that you did take a chance on this and that he did not murder you. 1
Ross MwcFan Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Guy sounds like a total douchebag, the OP sounds like a douchebag target. I shake my head that any woman would fall for this. There's totally no need for that D-lish. What's Lil1 ever done to you? 1
sid3 Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Yeah, glad you didn't get murdered. As for the hating, that's about as ridiculous as the peace and love to all. Glad it motivates you though. Next time please state you only want to be told what you'd like to hear.
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