iandr0idos Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 So first of all, some of you may notice that I am 16, not exactly they age for dating, which I accept. However, I really need some help to maintain my sanity. I've known this girl for about a year so far. To me, she is perfect, there could be nothing else I could ask for. However, she's been in a stable relationship for three years, and is also going off to college. Yes, she is two years older than me. I'm not asking for help on how I can steal her away. I want to forget her, even though I will probably not meet anybody like her again. I can't stop thinking about her, and every time I do, I go a little more insane. Anybody that can help me get over her, please do! If not, I seriously feel that I may do much nastier things to myself...
Philosoraptor Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 She is the object you are fixated on. What you need to do is shift the fixation onto ideally yourself. I remember that age and I had a crazy crush as well that I believed was perfect. Nothing ever came of it and by the time high school ended it didn't matter anymore anyways. I'd say either get a new crush or find a new hobby. You just need something to focus on right now to help you migrate away from this girl.
LoveAnimals Posted June 14, 2012 Posted June 14, 2012 I believe this is an intense infatuation. You are putting this girl (whom im going to assume you dont know very well?) on a pedestal and idealizing her. Trust me you will eventually fall for someone else. Hang in there :)
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