NYC-BigKat Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 I was at the massage parlor yesterday & a cute masseuse in her 20s gave me her number after the session. She said I was really nice & its hard to find nice people. She also say to text whenever I want. But the problem is that when I go to leave I take a peek in the room & she in there doing her massage on another guy & he feel her up & stuff when she massaged him. Why is she letting this stranger do that if she wants a nice guy like me? I dont know what to do about this .
Cracker Jack Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 She's looking to exchange sex for money. Or....maybe she does like you. You never know. What did you two talk about?
Feelsgoodman Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 I doubt she's a slut, more likely she's a whore. Almost certainly the case.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 She's looking to exchange sex for money. Or....maybe she does like you. You never know. What did you two talk about? But if she do like me why would she let a strange man touch her up then? I saw him rubbing her tummy & her legs while she massaged him from the front. I dont like that . But anyway we talked about movies & music & she said I was very smart & she offered me her number & said to text her whenever I want but I dont know if I should. I dont wanna date a slut.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 But if she do like me why would she let a strange man touch her up then? I saw him rubbing her tummy & her legs while she massaged him from the front. I dont like that . But anyway we talked about movies & music & she said I was very smart & she offered me her number & said to text her whenever I want but I dont know if I should. I dont wanna date a slut. Dude, she's not a slut. She's a pro.
sid3 Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 But if she do like me why would she let a strange man touch her up then? I saw him rubbing her tummy & her legs while she massaged him from the front. I dont like that . But anyway we talked about movies & music & she said I was very smart & she offered me her number & said to text her whenever I want but I dont know if I should. I dont wanna date a slut. Yes you do, you just want her to be your personal slut. Show me a man that doesn't and I'll show you a liar.
Cracker Jack Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 But if she do like me why would she let a strange man touch her up then? I saw him rubbing her tummy & her legs while she massaged him from the front. I dont like that . But anyway we talked about movies & music & she said I was very smart & she offered me her number & said to text her whenever I want but I dont know if I should. I dont wanna date a slut. As mentioned, she's a prostitute. Many of them frequent massage parlors. She might've gave you her # because she wants you as a friend, or because she wants you as a future customer. If you seen another guy doing that, I'm sorry, but I'm sure he's not the first and won't be the last. Forget her. 1
dasein Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 That guy you saw on the table feeling her up was once in your position, having recently gotten her card and being given a pitch about how hard it is to find nice guys. He made a decision, now it's time for you to make one. You have received a simple business proposition, not a dating invitation.
carhill Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 I was at the massage parlor yesterday & a cute masseuse in her 20s gave me her number after the session. Presuming it was a paid massage, she's promoting future business. She said I was really nice & its hard to find nice people. She also say to text whenever I want. This is social lubrication/mind-fµcking, also used to promote future business. I take a peek in the room & she in there doing her massage on another guy & he feel her up & stuff when she massaged him. Reality man. Welcome to the modern world. IMO, find a masseuse who doesn't give 'happy endings'. Much healthier and probably a better massage too. Tip: It can be a man. Don't worry about dating a 'slut'. You won't be dating her anytime soon, at least not in the way you're likely thinking of, as a prelude to a healthy romantic relationship. That's my prediction, having been in similar circumstances, though not always with something obvious like this masseuse, many times.
Shaun-Dro Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 That guy you saw on the table feeling her up was once in your position, having recently gotten her card and being given a pitch about how hard it is to find nice guys. He made a decision, now it's time for you to make one. You have received a simple business proposition, not a dating invitation. Still having problems there Bigkat. Well, listen to these people in here. I do feel they know what they're talking about. The masseuse's giving you her phone number was a proposition for future massages, nothing more. If you want what's quoted as "happy endings" then you may have to shell out a little more for it. Bottom line, don't expect to date this dame or any kind of relationship as she's only in this business for the money, and will say anything to make it happen, so please be savvy to it. If you must get your rocks off somehow then give it a go, but expect nothing beyond that. Get this through your head or you'll wound up back on these threads in sorrow.
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