phil00 Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 I posted this in the breakup forum, but in hindsight, this is hardly a "break up" situation. We've been broken up for a long time. Life was going good, the this happened. Opinions please... Hello all. I am new here. My ex broke up with me 2 years ago. She started seeing someone right after the breakup. It was difficult, but I slowly got through it. Then we got in contact. Here's what happened... I haven’t talked to the ex in a LONG time. After about 2 years of no contact, about 2 weeks ago, I accidentally sent her a text to come pick me up because I was kinda stranded at a bar and didn’t want to risk a dui. I sent out a mass text to see if anyone was still up, and with getting a new phone, etc, the auto sync must’ve added her number to the list. I never in a million years would’ve sent her the text. But, she was one of the few to respond.I get a text asking me where I was I thought it was someone else since I knew that other person was going to be up. So I’d say where I am at about 10 minutes later I get a phone call and its the ex. I’m in shock .She said she was driving home and she can come get me. Then I heard a guy in the background saying no I’m doing is driving. That figured she was with her dude and her dude was coo I’m like yeah just come get me. So she came and got me. I introduce myself to the guy and it turns out that it was her gay friend whom she lives with now. Last I heard she was living with your long term boyfriend, but now she’s living with this gay dude and a few other women. I’m not really sure if she is still with her dude (whom she dated right after me and lived with him for about a year), all I know is that she isn’t living with him now, The gay dude goes ” I know you. I know all about you. I know more about you than you even know about you.” First thing my ex says to me is happy birthday. then she starts talking about how she misses my family et cetera. The gay dude told her to quit quit reminiscing and all that stuff whenever she got that way. Whats kinda weird is that she kept looking at the rear view mirror looking at me and saying stuff like awe isn’t he cute! And a gay guy kept telling her to stop it. Then she kept kinda rubbing my leg. She didn’t ask me if I had my keys which I did. Then she kept asking me which key was for my door et cetera et cetera. She asked me if I needed help up to bed..I told her I was fine and you could just drop me off at the corner. She said she would pick me up the next day to take me to my car. That’s when he goes no we both will take him to his car. When she got to my place she got out of the car I think to give me a hug. I got out out of the car just kinda touch her arm and thank her for answering my text. Well she never called me the next day to take me to my car. I sent her a text the next day evening thanking her for the rescue and that I really appreciated it and if she ever got stranded but I could return the favor. She responded with sure thing and that was it. A few days later I sent her a text asking if she could walk my dog because I was called out of town. It was a mass text. She replied saying she would feel weird doing that. A few days later, when I was out, I accidentally butt dialed her and a few other friends. She called me like 2 hours later, but I didn’t answer. When I saw that she had called, I didn’t realize she was calling me back, so I texted her if she needed me to come get her, because I would. Then I noticed that I butt dialed, and sent another texted saying “oops, I butt dialed, sorry”. Then this past weekend, I had a little liquid courage in me, sent her just a “hello” type of text, and then I get this message that my phone has been blocked!! When we were going through our issues 2 years ago, I never was blocked! And now, I send a total of 3 texts, and a butt dial in a span of 2 weeks, and she blocks my number! What do I do?
Philosoraptor Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Again, you leave her alone. She blocked you and made the choice so that you won't continue to pester her. I won't get into all of the accidental messages and calls though. Just leave her alone because she has made it clear by taking action that she wants to be left alone. 2
tallydoo Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 What do you want from her? If you don't want anything, then just go back to not talking to her. On the other hand, if you want to get back together, that's a different story.
Author phil00 Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 Again, thank you for the advice. For that one meeting we had, it seemed like she was genuinely happy to see me, and it was her friend that kept putting the kabosh on things. I will say that when we were together, she hated when I would send a lot of texts, and I can see her thinking that I was doing the same. As far as what I want, I dunno. This just threw me for a loop. The fact remains, I was blocked. She made effort to do so. And I have enough pride now not to contact anyone who blocked me. Doesn't make it any easier though.
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