mrkibble03 Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 So I met this girl last month and we recently have started to hang out. I always text her to set a date to go out, she rarely texts me asking me when I'm free. Anyways We have gone to a couple of movies and have had a few drinks at the local bars. One night I told her I liked her and eventually asked her out. She said she liked me and that it would be cool if we go out but she said she would like to get to know me first. Few weeks later I asked her how she felt about me and she said I'm not going to make it easy for you, you have to figure that out or it wouldn't be fun. I laughed and said how do I know and she said well how do you know? I'm wondering what does she mean by all that and what should I do? Thanks for all the help.
USMCHokie Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Few weeks later I asked her how she felt about me... What are we, in middle school...? This is a question you should never ask a girl...you simply act and then judge by her reactions...you ask her out, she says yes...you kiss her, she kisses back...etc... and she said I'm not going to make it easy for you, you have to figure that out or it wouldn't be fun. Yes, we are in f*cking middle school... I'm wondering what does she mean by all that and what should I do? I honestly don't know how you'd recover from that...but the fact that she wants to "get to know you first" before you go out on a date means one of two things: (1) She's just not that into you; or (2) She's absolutely clueless when it comes to dating. Going out on a date is how you get to know someone!! I wouldn't put too much effort into this one...
LittlePrince Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Women don't play hard to get. They simply play but cry home once they get played.
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Yeah at this point of the game you've got to be able to figure out it, I know a lot of young guys need direct and obvious answers but you've got to learn to trust yourself, It's part of being a man. It's not smooth, sexy, confident or exciting to ask that kind of a question, so just be more confident. Start to just be you, go with it, trust your gut, take chances..add spice to it and have fun, don't overthink it so much, just go with it, she wants you to catch her...but it sounds like you're losing the battle if not already lost. If you're just expecting women to roll over for you, some might If they're desperate, but part of the fun and excitment in the beginning is not knowing what the other person is thinking exactly or feeling. You've got to find out in others way, without asking. Work on your confidence and taking initiative, if you're just waiting for the signs like a lot of guys or feedback that is so obvious then you're going to get passed over, you've got to be able go with the flow and peak a womans interest and show her what you bring to the table.
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