medasist Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 So I'm dating a new/old guy (we've been friends for almost 7 years) and I couldn't be happier. However, there is one little problem (and I mean little) He isn't so well endowed downstairs. I was just wondering if anyone had advise on how to make sex a little better?
USMCHokie Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 The search feature is your friend. We've had several threads on this very topic within the last day. The popular advice has been to just leave him.
shayla Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 It depends on just how small he is, if he is open for doing other things to satisfy you, and if the rest of your relationship is good or not.
Author medasist Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 Leaving him is the last thing I want to do. He is very into pleasing me, and our relationship is amazing other than the sex part.
mesmerized Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 have sex with him with your legs on his shoulders. How small is he?
Author medasist Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 I'm gonna say maybe 4 or 5 inches, and not very gurthy.
USMCHokie Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Leaving him is the last thing I want to do. He is very into pleasing me, and our relationship is amazing other than the sex part. The second things go even slightly south, this very same issue will come up again...but you will use it as a convenient justification for leaving him. And it will be all...his...fault... 1
Author medasist Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 The only bad thing about our relationship, is for the next year and a half, he will be away from home a lot and that is because he is in the navy. Usually this would be a deal breaker for me, but after knowing him for so long, and him not only being my boyfriend, but my best friend, there is no way in hell something so small would get in the way of what him and I have.
USMCHokie Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 ...there is no way in hell something so small would get in the way of what him and I have. This made me giggle... 3
dasein Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 In missionary, grab his ass and pull him towards high riding you, tilt your pelvis down. Move him until he is hitting your g spot. Get him moving side to side on top of you grinding your clit, steer him using his ass or sides as handles. Unless he is really tiny or partially flaccid, not being able to get hit right or needing to feel "filled up" is a matter of neither party doing it right and too much generic thrusting. Good luck.
LittlePrince Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 I'm gonna say maybe 4 or 5 inches, and not very gurthy. That's basically average length.
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 It's going to come down to positions... I'm not sure how athletic or strong of a guy he is but it would help(I kinda feel like I'm about to give sex ed to a bunch of middle school kids for some odd reason)..but a few positions that will probably help would be.. - when you're on all fours, tuck your knees underneath your body and stick out the rear (don't arch your back like a rainbow and make that hump...stick your butt out and up like you're doing a proper squat bringing your lower back in), he might have to support himself and adjust to the height depending on your heights, but he should feel bigger. - have him put a small pillow under his hips while you're on top, lift your legs up, not on your kness and rock back and forth like a sea horsie. - have him scissor you..you on your back, him on his side...one of his legs underneath your body,his other leg over your other leg and he should be able to figure out the rest...If hes a strong guy with a good core he should be able to pound you into oblivion in this position, he can even grab onto your shoulder. So based on his strength, power, stamina and physical ability he may able to pull off more complicated moves and positioning to hit the right spot beacuse the sweet spot isn't always deep although some women like it deeper than others, good abs (core) help on a man really help the hips out penetrating deep or hititng the right spots (however the G-spot is near the front but you can still hit it from other positions or tease it). Those are a few simple positions that I think most people could do though, there are obviously more, so look into that, moving your legs back is always a good idea and standing up positions where you're on the bed and he is not. Also make sure he stimulates you in other ways, turns you on and warms you up, make sure he becomes an expert in oral if possible...that way after an orgasm he can pound away and you'd still enjoy it because you're in the moment. He can also use his fingers, but If he's going to do penetration as well you might think his fingers feel better than his penis..especially without girth or length You'll probably need to stimulate yourself to get off during sex, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing as most women enjoy both although sometiems depending on the man they may or may not be able to reach orgasm during just intercourse.
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