xpaperxcutx Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Recently I've been hanging out with my friend E more and more. This past weekend we went outpartying - we were dancing together a lot and ik have to admit there was some heavy flikrting between the two of us. At the end of the night he invited me back to his place so we can chill at the beach the next day(he lived wright by the beach). We cuddled together for a movie and then went to bed cuddling again.the next day we went to Jones beachand spent half the day tanning. I feel so comfortable around him likewise him with me since he literally went nude at the beach. We can talk and laugh without feeling like we had to impress each other. I am attracted to him but at the same time I am hesitant about starting anything with him. I don't know how he feels about me since he has a very outgoing personality that he can practically talk to anyone and everyone. I like that I have him as a friend yet at the same time I can't imagine what it would be like to be more. His last relationship was a year ago and it lasted 8 years. He's very carefree and independent, and he has a good head on his shoulders. We went to dinner with my best friend and her bf last night after the beach. He got along very well with everyone. He was polite and he carried conversations very well. At the end of the night he drove me home gave me a hug and went home. I asked my friend for her opinion on him and she said he was really great and she was happy I had somebody like him in my life. So he is my friend. I'm not sure whether anything will progress but my friend told me to go with the flow.what's everyones opinion?
Philosoraptor Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 If you want something more than be direct about it. I don't see anything in what you've wrote that would say he wouldn't be interested. But tanning nude? That would be a horrific place to get a sunburn. Peeling the skin off would look like a snake shedding.
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 If you want something more than be direct about it. I don't see anything in what you've wrote that would say he wouldn't be interested. But tanning nude? That would be a horrific place to get a sunburn. Peeling the skin off would look like a snake shedding. Some of us tan.
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Sounds like someone worth getting to know a bit more...sounds like he is enjoying his independence and doesn't seem geared..from anything you said to change that...seems like he enjoyed your company and some cuddling, but hasn't seemed to indicate a stronger interest yet which strikes me as questionable interest. I'm surprised he whipped out his winking willy at the beach with you, seems liek that comfort level was not necessarily sexual though, just his personality possibly unless he wanted you to take a gander at it. Go with your gut and the flow, taking it day by day, don't get ahead of yourself or create situations or ideas that haven't materialized...while getting to know him try to find out If he's dating, what he's interested in and working towards in his life, he might spill the beans of what his intentions are there and how available he really is...might not be worth something pressing and ruining a friendly acquaintance.
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