geegirl Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Dang! Don't mess with Flo! I think a small penis is the least of your problems, Free! Time to self-reflect.
Cyberpunk Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 I'm just grateful that I got as lucky as I did in that aspect of my life, otherwise I don't think I'd have much of anything going for me. 1
geegirl Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 hee hee. I know I can be bitchy sometimes and I apologise gee. I think you are great and I find myself never posting on your threads; cause you always nail it with your advice... Don't apologize! You're a straight shooter and that's what I love about your posts!
Chi townD Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 "There's an old co worker of mine who I've had a major crush on forever. I GET absolutely nervous when I'm around him (This is actually pretty fun for me because I usually don't get this excited) anyway, he moved to another state but visits about 2x/year. I finally confessed one year later and he was surprised that I actually liked him. He's about 17 years older. It's just a crush and we usually flirt back and fourth. I don't see myself in a relationship with him (I have no idea how he feels but I remember when he found out about my age he pulled back a bit). However, I would be be happy with a one night stand. I mentioned it as a possibility (half jokingly) and he agreed to it. Last time we went out for wine but he didn't make a move. I thought perhaps he's not interested in me, but he would send me these racey texts that obviously tells me that there's some sexual interest. He made it out here another time but only made time to see me for 20 mins, I decided not to because I was busy that day. I was frustrated because we had planned a trip together. So I just left it alone, he later contacted and start flirting with me which is fun but WHY DOESN"T HE JUST SLEEP WITH ME???? " OH REALLY!!!! I'm starting to think that there isn't a problem with Mr. Dinky's unit afterall! 1
Cyberpunk Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Wow, this girl is even a lot worse than my Ex, which I never thought was possible.
Author freetolove Posted June 12, 2012 Author Posted June 12, 2012 It's called dating. you think men are the only ones who date around? WOMEN DATE TOO, we have choices and options. Thank GOD.
greenz Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 freetolove, with all due respect, you are all over the place. You want a nice guy, you want a big penis, you want a one night stand with someone else while in a relationship with a bf that you supposedly care about, you want settling down and you want marriage and kids. Why not take some time for yourself and figure out what you really want? I think you should stop stringing your current bf along, break up with him nicely since his penis size is not really his fault and see how you feel over time. Maybe you'll miss him and his cute little penis when you no longer have him in your life or maybe you'll be glad that you went ahead and broke up with him cause you would have just hurt his feelings more in the long run. Be a woman and stop acting like a little girl. 1
HHC Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 (edited) We met through mutual friends. I haven't brought up bad sex yet but he's well aware that it's small, it doesn't take a genius to figure that out. He tried to make it better his effort is buying sex toys, etc. Everytime I see how small it is I get upset/frustrated (not a joke) I never brought up the size to him because I think it's mean but do you think I should bring it up? I understand. It's almost depressing because you know you're never going to get the sex you want and you're reminded every time he gets what he wants. Sex is very important for me. My husband could make up a lot of short falls by being more passionate in bed and being more on my level in regards to what I need and how I need it. The more passionate and lustful he is during sex the less the size becomes an issue for me. He's working on it, but it's not perfect. You know what is perfect though? When I look past the issue of sex and not being sexually frustrated and to the man who makes his life about making me happy and feeling loved. We talk a lot so the issue of size and issues surrounding sex are spoken about and understood. If he refused to listen to the things that were important with me I am sure I would have resentment towards him and want to blame him. But the fact of the matter is we are two totally different people. I love him for who he is and what he does, not because he's well hung and ****s me senseless at the drop of a hat. He is the man he is today because of what he's experienced in life and what he hasn't. If he were the passionate man I want all the time, he wouldn't be able to be the kind, caring, and sensitive man I need more often. He knows he's small. He's trying to make up for it by buying you sex toys. You should bring it up more so in a way about your sexual needs and desires and not in a way that attacks what he's doing wrong. Edited June 12, 2012 by HHC 1
salparadise Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 (edited) So they are indeed, also shallow, and not accepting of a physical attribute someone cannot help.....so it is shallow calling out shallow. Does this mean a person is shallow if they prefer physically attractive people to ugly people? People who are symmetrical and have all their appendages? If that's the case then the whole world is shallow. Physical attributes have always been, always will be, a primary factor in mate selection. Everyone does the best they can. The OP should probably go ahead and end the relationship since she already exhibits signs of resentment toward this caring, loving man with the small winky. It's not so much a matter of ethics as simply her preference and she has a right to her preferences. She may actually prefer someone with a third leg, yet without the other positive qualities she say this guy has. It's her life, and his life would probably be happier with someone else. BTW, since nobody has asked the obvious question... just how small are we talkin about here? Edited June 12, 2012 by salparadise
sweetheart5381 Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 Does this mean a person is shallow if they prefer physically attractive people to ugly people? People who are symmetrical and have all their appendages? If that's the case then the whole world is shallow. Physical attributes have always been, always will be, a primary factor in mate selection. Everyone does the best they can. The OP should probably go ahead and end the relationship since she already exhibits signs of resentment toward this caring, loving man with the small winky. It's not so much a matter of ethics as simply her preference and she has a right to her preferences. She may actually prefer someone with a third leg, yet without the other positive qualities she say this guy has. It's her life, and his life would probably be happier with someone else. BTW, since nobody has asked the obvious question... just how small are we talkin about here? Good question Funny, I am in the opposite boat but the same in a way. The man I am seeing is huge...I had no idea til we became physical. It actually becomes a prob because we cant be intimate as long as we would like, because it becomes painful. He knows it, and he is very conscious that it could hurt me if he is too rough or if it goes for too long... similar to a man that knows that he is small and wants to make it as enjoyable as possible for his partner. I personally think my partner is wonderful because he thinks of my comfort level. Truth us, size does matter... but not in the way that most folks think.
greenz Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 And I don't think there's anything wrong with taking physical appearances into account. Some people are just naturally more into that. But you can be into that and be respectful about it or nasty. Having said that, I don't think the OP was being nasty.
Radu Posted June 12, 2012 Posted June 12, 2012 (edited) Firstly, I am a woman but its clear as day the OP has the emotional depth of an orangutan. Just do a search for her threads and read a few of them. I don't base my answers on what I read on a single thread. I normally do a search of posters; to form an opinion of them and their situation. She posted this on the 8th of June -> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/329614-man-teasing-me ...She posted the winky thing in other forum and got 5 pages worth of answers. My reading of her is spot on. She is shallow. An alpha female appartently ... I have no time for people like the OP. Ok my opinion is not welcome by some. That's fine. I call it as I see it. I have made my contribution to the thread so I will leave it. Whether people agree or not that is why its called a 'forum'.. I really thought you were out of line untill i read the entire thread. OMG, this and the alfa female thread is just ... so awesome. OP, you don't have the maturity to be in a relationship. Your mentality is close to that of entitlement and in your own words you have set aside yrs to sow wild oaths untill you got to 28 ... well i got news for you, that was just extended high-school, there are 18 yr olds who have more relationship maturity than you. If your ideea of being an 'alfa' female is to have an attitude of entitlemtent, then i truly pity you. It is about leading ppl and making good decisions for them, it is not about feeling that the world owes you something. GL with that. Edited June 12, 2012 by Radu
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