meanttolive4ever Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 If a person really wants to get back together with you...wouldnt they call or something after a few weeks of not being together? or does it usually take 6 months or more to come back around? Whats your opinions on this?
vhshowdown Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 Im right there with ya meanttolive. Have you had any contact with your ex at all? Do you know their feelings at all? I have had several encounters with mine, and each time I feel there is good possiblilty to get back together. So far, no go!! She enjoys playing mind games, and not calling for long periods of time, etc.... so I dont know....
unreal Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 Originally posted by meanttolive4ever If a person really wants to get back together with you...wouldnt they call or something after a few weeks of not being together? or does it usually take 6 months or more to come back around? Whats your opinions on this? Never bank or count on anything! My ex left and came back 6 YEARS LATER, left a marriage for me and then LEFT AGAIN after the first year back together! I don't believe this "meant to be" stuff anymore.
peacefuldreamer Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 I think it all depends on the person and the circumstances. 2 years ago my ex and I were going through the same thing we are right now. Back then it took him 3 months to come back. We did still see each other once and a while while we were out but we spent very little time together. This time though he cant seem to go more than 2 days without talking to me. We arent back together YET but I think we are on the road there. You could even get a surprise one day and they show up unexpected thats what happened to me yesterday after telling him to leave me alone cause I couldnt handle the s**t anymore. Give them time and if they truly love you they will come around.
Author meanttolive4ever Posted June 30, 2004 Author Posted June 30, 2004 Originally posted by vhshowdown Im right there with ya meanttolive. Have you had any contact with your ex at all? Do you know their feelings at all? I have had several encounters with mine, and each time I feel there is good possiblilty to get back together. So far, no go!! She enjoys playing mind games, and not calling for long periods of time, etc.... so I dont know.... i havent had any contact in over a month with him...well atleast over the phone..but he did come up to my work and i ran into this girl he used to talk to awhile back..i ran into her the other day..like people say our paths arent crossing for no reason. Im running into everyone around us but him. This is too weird. And they do say that if its meant to be that your paths will always cross twice. And well they have but i cant like dwell on that. I mean yea if he came back that would be so great and then i could finally be happy again cause ive been dating around and i havent been happy with anyone. This just sucks. Originally posted by unreal Never bank or count on anything! My ex left and came back 6 YEARS LATER, left a marriage for me and then LEFT AGAIN after the first year back together! I don't believe this "meant to be" stuff anymore. i believe in it..i just dont know what i believe in as far as how long they have to wait in order to know if its meant to be or not. Originally posted by peacefuldreamer I think it all depends on the person and the circumstances. 2 years ago my ex and I were going through the same thing we are right now. Back then it took him 3 months to come back. We did still see each other once and a while while we were out but we spent very little time together. This time though he cant seem to go more than 2 days without talking to me. We arent back together YET but I think we are on the road there. You could even get a surprise one day and they show up unexpected thats what happened to me yesterday after telling him to leave me alone cause I couldnt handle the s**t anymore. Give them time and if they truly love you they will come around. well i dont know if he truly love sme or not..im so damn confused cause everytime i see him i get so nervous and i cant talk straight.i dont know what it means..bt oh well.
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