sapthemall Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 So I'm about to finish my divorce, an I moved in with a friend that I've had a crush even when I was married but being married I just put that on the side and left it. Ok I'm a 23 male, and she's a 31 female and we make each other laugh, we have good times, since I moved we split everything including food, beer, and etc. Reason I moved in with is because she had an extra room so I started to rent it and I was cheaper then getting an apartment. So drink together, talk together and she wears booty shorts around me, a tan top with no bra (she has big boobs), and comes out the shower with just a towel in to my room, when we watch movies she tends to put her head by my crouch area, she let's me grab her butt, hips, legs, back, hair but not her boobs, and she grabs my butt, tickles me, and lays on top of me. It's hard not to get a boner from all this but I can't let her see that I'm getting exited. I think she knows that I like her but my friends asked her if she liked me, and she said "I just don't feel the same way about him" so why is she doing all this in front of me?? I don't wanna ask her straight up, and ruin a friendship or make it weird between us. Have any of you guys gone through this? Girls: do most girls do this or is she just one big tease? I need help I would not change one thing about her... Not one. That's how much of a crush I have on her.
MuscleCarFan Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 It really seems that she likes you. I would just ask her anyway. It seems like the feeling is mutual between you two.
KraftDinner Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 She told the friend she didn't like you that way, so to me that means she doesn't. She might be somewhat physically attracted to you tho, but tbh I'd be willing to bet she's doing all the touching etc. just to feed her ego as she can tell she's having an effect on you. I'm a woman, just fyi. And women often do that sort of thing and just play dumb (oh, I was just being innocent, I didn't know you were taking it that way, etc. but that's ridiculous --- we ALWAYS know...denial is just a way to appear innocent or save face).
Solo34 Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 (edited) ...drink together, talk together and she wears booty shorts around me, a tan top with no bra (she has big boobs), and comes out the shower with just a towel in to my room, when we watch movies she tends to put her head by my crouch area, she let's me grab her butt, hips, legs, back, hair, and she grabs my butt, tickles me, and lays on top of me. All this sh*t, and you're scared to show her you're catching wood for her?? Another thing, you don't have your friends ask her "Do you like SapTheMall??" You just go in for your kiss on her next time you're watching a movie and touching her, etc. That's how you'll know, man. Trust me, if she's doing all this, she wants you to make a move...not have your friends inquire about whether or not she "likes" you. That's a turn-off for a woman...especially a 31 year old woman at that. Make your move!! --- And let me add, after you make your move and if she rejects your advances, she's just be a manipulative bitch about it and stringing you along for the attention. However, you won't know any of this until you try and kiss her. Go for it. Edited June 11, 2012 by Solo34
KraftDinner Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 All this sh*t, and you're scared to show her you're catching wood for her?? --- And let me add, after you make your move and if she rejects your advances, she's just be a manipulative bitch about it and stringing you along for the attention. However, you won't know any of this until you try and kiss her. Go for it. I agree with all of this. 1
mortensorchid Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Guy, you cannot possibly think that this is a healthy situation, can you? You are 24 and going through a divorce and you're ready to move in with another woman that you have a crush on already but you are going to be living together "as roommates" for about twenty minutes and then as bf/gf? Surely you are smarter than that, aren't you? 1
Cracker Jack Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Dude, I don't care what she says. She clearly wants you to bang her. 1
Author sapthemall Posted June 11, 2012 Author Posted June 11, 2012 I didn't ask my friends to ask her, and the I moved in with her because she knows about my divorce when I didn't want everybody else to know. We slept together in the same bed but just slept because we got drunk, I tried to get closer but she didn't even do anything an I know she was awake.
Solo34 Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 I didn't ask my friends to ask her, and the I moved in with her because she knows about my divorce when I didn't want everybody else to know. We slept together in the same bed but just slept because we got drunk, I tried to get closer but she didn't even do anything an I know she was awake. You tried to kiss her??
mesmerized Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Dude, I don't care what she says. She clearly wants you to bang her. lool, agreeed. She wants it, give it to her already!
USMCHokie Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 It's hard not to get a boner from all this but I can't let her see that I'm getting exited. lool, agreeed. She wants it, give it to her already! There's a really easy way to get rid of the boner...
Author sapthemall Posted June 11, 2012 Author Posted June 11, 2012 You tried to kiss her?? Not really, when I get close to her face she just thinks its funny
verhrzn Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Maybe she does like you, but doesn't want to pursue anything because you're 1) much younger than her and 2) um, kinda going through a divorce. The "divorce" thing is kind of a big deal. She might be (correctly) assuming you are not in a good place for a relationship right now, but is also tempted by your attentions to her. My advice? Find someplace else to crash, and focus on working through your divorce. Keep a friendship with her open, but knock off the physical stuff.
Oxy Moronovich Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 I agree with Solo34. Make a move already: wrap your arms around her, kiss her, and then have sex with her. If she says no then you know she's a tease. All in all, don't let this chick BS you. It's a waste of time. 1
Solo34 Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Not really, when I get close to her face she just thinks its funny If she "just thinks it's funny," she has no interest in you and only enjoys all the attention you are giving her. I've been there myself...all too recently. She LOVES the attention you provide, the comments you make, how you can't stop feeling her, etc., but she doesn't want anything to do with you outside of the attention and boost to her ego that you provide. Real talk...and it sucks, but don't fall for her sh*t.
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