Nick_Name Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 I travel for work, and shortly after arriving in my latest destination (a relatively small town), I started spending a lot of time with, and eventually dating my neighbor. We dated for about 9 months, and during this time she was for the most part the only person I spent any time with as I was new to town. Things didn't work out romantically, and we broke up about 2 months ago. We've tried to remain friends, and still spend time together (including a regular weekly gathering), but I find myself struggling with things a lot more than she seems to be. I'm torn on what to do next - I will only be living in this town for 4-5 more months, so it seems crazy to really try and start over. She doesn't have this issue and has had no trouble finding new friends to fill the void in her life. Do I initiate no contact now? Do I remain social/friendly, but only respond to her contact? I feel like I value our relationship much more than she does, and am really torn with what to do...Help!
Philosoraptor Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 This is why I avoid pursuing anything with anyone I need to see on a daily basis. Neighbors, coworkers, etc. If you're only there a few more months then just do what you are comfortable with and know this won't be an issue for much longer.
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