Daniel Kaiser Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Hello guys. My girlfriend broke up with my ex 5 months ago. Reason, mainly jealousy, but we were both fed up with all the fighting around jealousy issues and it ate away at our relationship happiness. During one of these fights, we just decided to break up. Thing is, I've always been very attracted to this girl. We had that kind of unique chemistry that some couples have, and I always felt like she was a big loss to me. Anyway, I managed to cope up very well, with minimum drama, and was very happy about my life. Went NC with her for a while, but nothing written on stone. I really thought I was over her, but never put aside the idea of getting back together with her. Well, it so happened that her sister, with whom I had a very good friendship, invited me to her birthday party and I decided to go. I had some very good time with my ex during that party, and the day after, I already felt like I wanted her back pretty bad I woke up and found out there was a nice event in town, a Romeo and Juliet play in a big square here in my city. So I decided, without a moment's pause, to text her and invite her to go with me. She hasn't even answered the SMS, and I've already gone to the play and now I'm home, typing this... In general, I feel like crap. I wish I could just let go of her, accept the fact that things change and chances are, we probably aren't made for each other! But I think I fear that letting go would kill any chances we had to work things out too... Glad to type all this.
LanaDelRey Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 Thats the tricky part of no contact.. you have to do it for you. When you come off as though your fine without her but really your not then you allow hurt to creep back into your life. I understand your good friends with her sister but it's too soon to be around your ex. She'll have fun with you but unless she telling you she wants you back then your wasting your time. Its mean when people do that and its not fair to you. Her ignoring you somewhat shows its not like that for her and shes not trying to go back in that direction with you right now. If I were you I would leave it alone. Move on and if she wants you back trust me you will know. If you can't be around her for even a night without feelings coming back up then you need to let her go for good. Don't give her that power anymore. Also don't put yourself in situations where you know she will be there. They never end with a happy heart. Unless it happens by chance then let it go.
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