Daniel Kaiser Posted June 10, 2012 Posted June 10, 2012 Hello guys. My girlfriend broke up with my ex 5 months ago. Reason, mainly jealousy, but we were both fed up with all the fighting around jealousy issues and it ate away at our relationship happiness. During one of these fights, we just decided to break up. Thing is, I've always been very attracted to this girl. We had that kind of unique chemistry that some couples have, and I always felt like she was a big loss to me. Anyway, I managed to cope up very well, with minimum drama, and was very happy about my life. Went NC with her for a while, but nothing written on stone. I really thought I was over her, but never put aside the idea of getting back together with her. Well, it so happened that her sister, with whom I had a very good friendship, invited me to her birthday party and I decided to go. I had some very good time with my ex during that party, and the day after, I already felt like I wanted her back pretty bad I woke up and found out there was a nice event in town, a Romeo and Juliet play in a big square here in my city. So I decided, without a moment's pause, to text her and invite her to go with me. She hasn't even answered the SMS, and I've already gone to the play and now I'm home, typing this... In general, I feel like crap. I wish I could just let go of her, accept the fact that things change and chances are, we probably aren't made for each other! But I think I fear that letting go would kill any chances we had to work things out too... Glad to type all this.
Yamaha Posted June 10, 2012 Posted June 10, 2012 My girlfriend broke up with my ex 5 months ago :confused:
Author Daniel Kaiser Posted June 11, 2012 Author Posted June 11, 2012 I meant my ex broke up with me...
Limbo21 Posted June 11, 2012 Posted June 11, 2012 That's good it felt good to type that .... A problem shared and all that. Keep posting As for your upset, it's natural, 2 steps forward, 1 step back. To be honest it sounds like your doing pretty good, it's just a hitch. You will come across more hitches soon, keep talking, keep healing & keep getting better
Author Daniel Kaiser Posted June 11, 2012 Author Posted June 11, 2012 I know I won't be going to anymore events that are related to her, as I noticed I really need to be far away from her to heal completely. Still, I had some fun there, got together with her family again, and helping her and her sister felt really good, felt like old times... except that this time we had no physical intimacy. We do make a good team, and what drives me crazy is that it feels like she knows this too, but isn't responding as I would have expected I also feel like even if we got together again, it wouldn't work, and we would run on similar problems and end up fighting again... and maybe she sees this better than me. In the end, what really hurt me is the fact that she didn't even answer the text, as if I didn't deserve a simple "No, I don't wanna go with you" or some lame excuse... probably just my ego, and I know I need to let this stop hurting me. Thanks people.
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