Sakura Blossom Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 This may be a question without a sure answer, but I was just curious.. Are there traits to guys who are prone to cheat (be a player, a womanizer, Casanova etc)more than others? I read internet stuff on that from time to time, such as he is very charming, or is very smooth with the physical touches from the beginning, mentions marriage very early on, says "I love you" too soon and too often... I'd like to know what you think
StartingAgain Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 Originally posted by Sakura Blossom ... mentions marriage very early on, says "I love you" too soon and too often... Uh, no. This is definitely not a trait of a player. Indeed, the player wants to keep you wondering what's going on in his head. He'll toy with you, tell you what exactly what you want to hear. Engage you and then back off, leaving you wondering if you'll hear from him again. Oh, he'll woo you good enough. But you won't be hearing anything about marriage. He may profess love, but his behavior in general is not consistent with a man who is in love. Players care only about one thing: the vagina. They don't care about the rest of the woman. They will put out only as much effort as necessary to get a woman into bed. Once they've done this and they tire of her, they move on. If it takes too much effort to get her panties off, they just vanish and start working someone else. I've watched these guys operate. They are usually so transparent that anyone should be able to see their game. But they are masters of female psychology. They know how to choose their victims and don't waste their time one a woman who if going to recognize a player from the starting gate.
joel Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 where do u learn how to be a playa lol. what and how do the playas dress like-guessing like 50 cents-chains, baggy pants, crooked caps,sivler, gold. Originally posted by StartingAgain Uh, no. This is definitely not a trait of a player. Indeed, the player wants to keep you wondering what's going on in his head. He'll toy with you, tell you what exactly what you want to hear. Engage you and then back off, leaving you wondering if you'll hear from him again. Oh, he'll woo you good enough. But you won't be hearing anything about marriage. He may profess love, but his behavior in general is not consistent with a man who is in love. Players care only about one thing: the vagina. They don't care about the rest of the woman. They will put out only as much effort as necessary to get a woman into bed. Once they've done this and they tire of her, they move on. If it takes too much effort to get her panties off, they just vanish and start working someone else. I've watched these guys operate. They are usually so transparent that anyone should be able to see their game. But they are masters of female psychology. They know how to choose their victims and don't waste their time one a woman who if going to recognize a player from the starting gate.
thecake Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 and, I think some of the ones you mentioned are good ones. It takes time to really get to know someone so I would be suspicious of someone telling me they love me or mentioning marriage too quickly. I heard a cool quote yesterday..."If you date a player expect to get played".
StartingAgain Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 Let me reiterate hat you won't hear anything about marriage from a player. Then never allow a relationship to get that far. I've know quite a few players in my time and they use a number of methods: fake business cards, rented sports cars, meetings with fake business associates (friends who are also players), etc. They are expert liars. They are very smooth. But a player isn't the kind of guy you're going hvw more than a few dates with. They don't stick around for very long once they've gotten what they want. Mention the word "marriage" to a player and he'll vaporize.
faux Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 Originally posted by Sakura Blossom ...I read internet stuff on that from time to time, such as he is very charming, Uh oh. That's me. That's bad? or is very smooth with the physical touches from the beginning Definitely me. , mentions marriage very early on, says "I love you" too soon and too often... I'd like to know what you think Ah. Definitely not me. "I love you" is reserved for very special people, and I'm not quick to say those words. People, man or woman, who seem to REALLY know what they are doing as far as kissing, touching, anything bedroom/intimacy related, seem to be suspected as player types from the get-go. Originally posted by thecake and, I think some of the ones you mentioned are good ones. It takes time to really get to know someone so I would be suspicious of someone telling me they love me or mentioning marriage too quickly. I heard a cool quote yesterday..."If you date a player expect to get played". Quote: Your boyfriend any good at poker? Because he's playing you like a deck of cards.
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